“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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She cant decide between me and another

DJinTraining06

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Well guys i been posting like crazy bout my match.com girl who had suddenly gotten cold, after seein me 3 times in a week.

Well she finally was honest with me. I asked her out for firday. And she said can i be honest wiht you? "i hope u dont get upset with me, but im gettin kinda serious with this other guy"

I say how is that possible? We went out 3 times in 8 days, u were texitng me every day, tellin me we had great chemistry, and that u felt so comfortable around me. Not too mention u planned the 4th date, not me. U have the flu for 5 days and cancel our 4th date, and now a week later ur serious with a guy? How can that be.

Shes like: i wasnt lying bout bein sick, i work with this guy we never even went out, it just kinda happend. I dont know what to do, i really like u. But i like him too. i havent made a decision yet, im kinda laying low. i dont wanna see eithe rof u right now cuz i dont think its fair to lead u guys on.

So then shes like i underderstand if u never wanna speak to me again. I say "is that wat u want?" she goes "no i hope u do, i think we have great chemistry and we have alot of funnwhen we go out". "I've never done this before, i am confused. I'm sorry"

So i was trying to play it cool, and was like i know i understand, its up to u. do what ur gut tells u. Then i made some jokes to lighten it up a bit.
But then i couldnt help it i got a little testy, and she was like dont freak out on me, im sorry. I said im not freakin out,l i just dont get why u came on so strong if this was the case. she said "it happebned at the same time"

So then shes like ill call ya when im ready. so i said sure u got my #.



What should i do with this chick? I am so bummed over this, i been out with alot of girls and this one just seemed diff, i really clicked with her. should i giv eher an ultimatum eventually? or shouldi just dithc her. I really like her. i know u will all say oneitis but i know what im saying, this chick is cool.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Love those ultimatums! Woo!

Haha, well...she's playing the 'I like him more, but I don't want to hurt him' game. From experience...she has no logic behind this, this just pretty well did happen, but she likes him more.

Take it as you want.
 

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Speaking from a girls perspective, I'd say you did somehting that caused her to lose attraction, maybe you were too needy... who knows
The guys sounds like an excuse to me, she's just not attracted anymore and that's her way out.
Next her...
 
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