"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Comeback Kid

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I experienced an "interesting" encounter today.

First off, I thought I could tough out some "24-hour virus" I was having and go to school (I was alright, but it was tough), so this threw off my whole DJ-game a bit, since I was very tired and fell asleep in two of my classes.

Anyway, I'm sitting at lunch (almost fell asleep there too lol) and I realize these two chicks are staring at me. One of them hesitates a little and says
HB 7.5: "Hey TCK...(giggles)...were u watching what I told my friend?
TCK: "umm...no." Why? (I start to become somewhat aware of things since I feel a little less sick).
HB 7.5: ooo, well I told my friend I like you. (smiling)
ME: (realized I'm still definitely out of it - fighting off sleep): ooo, cool!

(10 seconds later)...

ME: (still waaaaay fatigued, but walk up to her) What's up?
HB 7.5: not much, u?
ME: same here. Anyway, you already mentioned u like me :yes: , it looks like we're going to Prom together :yes:
HB 7.5: Well actually, I'm going to the prom with a guy from (nearby town).

That was pretty much it. I wasn't going to try and think of a C + F comeback to that since I was about to hit the floor again and enjoy a nap in the middle of the hallway (oddly, I don't think she could definitely tell I was sick/tired). If I was in "normal condition" though, it may have looked more like :nono: :nono: :nono: :trouble: :trouble: :trouble:

Not a big deal though. I used to talk to her a little bit, but haven't talked to her at all lately (maybe once). I never even had this chick in mind when it came to Prom and who to ask. Considering she says she "likes" me, it was worth a shot though. I'm definitely not pursuing a relationship b/c I'm off to college at the end of August.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Comeback Kid

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No opinions? :confused:

As I mentioned before, this wasn't a big deal at all for me - I know this chick a little, but not a lot, and I hadn't even had her in mind when asking for Prom.

Just seems weird when a girl says she likes you, then says she has a date for Prom after I "suggest" we go, since she did say she liked me.
 

LikRetsam

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Bad luck with the prom question. If you're interested, get an outting organised. Just another encounter, nothing special here. Not worth posting, I don't think.
 

MrS

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likretsam wins.
 
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