"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She came to pick me up High!

DaedalusXXX

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Ok, this one threw me for a loop, so I am going to toss it out to the board...

There was this hot stripper that I was slowly rolling into side girl status...

I do things slow, because I avoid as much risk as possible in terms of my career etc.

So we were scheduled for lunch, and she came and picked me up. I get in the van and I immediately knew something was up...I was like, you are mellow today, she said, yeah, I just got done smoking (weed)...

****, I was trying to run patterns, and set her up psychologically, like I would normally, but that **** just wasn't working!

How would you all have handled that? I was committed to the date, yet I couldn't penetrate the canibus...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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undesputable

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you had a perfect opportunity......you did not have to set her up psycholigically or anything, your work had become like 10 times easier, bc she was chilled and relaxed, she probably didnt care much about anything you might have said..... if she was high she probably wanted to get physical

i would have said tight you got any weed left? lets smoke..... get in a playful mood and just get on with the kino
 

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I agree with undispute....weed takes care of over half your work for you. A dream scenerio in my book...I got a thing for stoner chicks......but that's a different topic, lol
 

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Damn, your right I missed the boat! Its been so long since I messed with a weed head! ****
 
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