"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She came to pick me up High!

DaedalusXXX

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Ok, this one threw me for a loop, so I am going to toss it out to the board...

There was this hot stripper that I was slowly rolling into side girl status...

I do things slow, because I avoid as much risk as possible in terms of my career etc.

So we were scheduled for lunch, and she came and picked me up. I get in the van and I immediately knew something was up...I was like, you are mellow today, she said, yeah, I just got done smoking (weed)...

****, I was trying to run patterns, and set her up psychologically, like I would normally, but that **** just wasn't working!

How would you all have handled that? I was committed to the date, yet I couldn't penetrate the canibus...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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undesputable

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you had a perfect opportunity......you did not have to set her up psycholigically or anything, your work had become like 10 times easier, bc she was chilled and relaxed, she probably didnt care much about anything you might have said..... if she was high she probably wanted to get physical

i would have said tight you got any weed left? lets smoke..... get in a playful mood and just get on with the kino
 

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I agree with undispute....weed takes care of over half your work for you. A dream scenerio in my book...I got a thing for stoner chicks......but that's a different topic, lol
 

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Damn, your right I missed the boat! Its been so long since I messed with a weed head! ****
 
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