“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She calls,Text's,msn's me, but never wants to hang out..

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Title summarized it.. When I contact her, always seems like shes been waiting for me to call, if I dont contact her first, she contacts me, when I go online in msn and stuff she magically appears seconds later.. yet she rarely actually wants to hang out... Is she scared? Is she tryin the old 'the more you make him wait, the more he'l want you' routine? I HAVE NO IDEA WTF IS GOING ON :p

please help guys lol..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tell her what you're thinking in the DJ way of course.

"Eh, I'm not sure if I can talk to you, I'm trying to cut down on my flake count for today."
 
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1. She might be in a serious relationship but enjoys flirting with you 'online'.
2. You are one of a few guys she's 'testing the waters' with.
3. She might be playing hard to get.

Hence, who the hell knows. What you need to do is communicate that you are growing bored with her and move on.

Distance yourself; see if she takes it to the next level after you remove your attention from the equation. This will show her true intentions.
 
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She's bored and has nothing better to do but not bored enough to do something in public with you. You're her Tamagotchi.
 
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Withdraw your availability on the phone and internet. Basically force her to make a choice between going out with you or not getting in touch with you at all. Her interest in you will become apparent. This route is the quickest way to seeing where she stands. So save yourself some time and try it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I just had a similiar experience. Trust me it isn't worth the stress and time...distance yourself...see what happens. If it still goes on then pretty much say what #2 post said.
 
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I too has a similar experinience with this girl Ive been seeing for close to 5 months. My issue was her withholding sex. I initiated a takeaway and it worked wonders. My girl was immediately responsive and seemed to be far more into me after the takeaway. Give it a try you'll be happy with the results.

I think you can't lose by initating a takeaway because both possible outcomes are good for you:

1. It's a wakeup call for her that you are the type of guy that requires her to be fully enagaged -- you become the prize.

or

2. She looses all interest and stops making any efforts to contact you -- you quit wasting your time -- your time is what's most precious here -- not her's.
 
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bigmil said:
I too has a similar experinience with this girl Ive been seeing for close to 5 months. My issue was her withholding sex. I initiated a takeaway and it worked wonders. My girl was immediately responsive and seemed to be far more into me after the takeaway. Give it a try you'll be happy with the results.

I think you can't lose by initating a takeaway because both possible outcomes are good for you:

1. It's a wakeup call fro her that you are the type of guy that requires her to be fully enagaged -- you become the prize.

or

2. She looses all interest and stops making any efforts to contact you -- you quit wasting your time -- your time is what's most precious here -- not her's.
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agreed. She is just bored. Use the take-away technique.

I'm currently trying this on a girl that flaked on me last night. I went out to the lunch hall where she was working and got a new girls number.

Which brought me to my new conclusion is that I was not spinning enough plates. Now, I am spinning three plates consecutively. I plan on spinning more plates shortly.

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tadhgire said:
Title summarized it.. When I contact her, always seems like shes been waiting for me to call, if I dont contact her first, she contacts me, when I go online in msn and stuff she magically appears seconds later.. yet she rarely actually wants to hang out... Is she scared? Is she tryin the old 'the more you make him wait, the more he'l want you' routine? I HAVE NO IDEA WTF IS GOING ON :p

please help guys lol..
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Dont respond to her right away. Let me tell you something... Women go Insane if you dont reply or contact them back. she will wonder whats going on.
 
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