“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She calls,Text's,msn's me, but never wants to hang out..

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Title summarized it.. When I contact her, always seems like shes been waiting for me to call, if I dont contact her first, she contacts me, when I go online in msn and stuff she magically appears seconds later.. yet she rarely actually wants to hang out... Is she scared? Is she tryin the old 'the more you make him wait, the more he'l want you' routine? I HAVE NO IDEA WTF IS GOING ON :p

please help guys lol..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tell her what you're thinking in the DJ way of course.

"Eh, I'm not sure if I can talk to you, I'm trying to cut down on my flake count for today."
 
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1. She might be in a serious relationship but enjoys flirting with you 'online'.
2. You are one of a few guys she's 'testing the waters' with.
3. She might be playing hard to get.

Hence, who the hell knows. What you need to do is communicate that you are growing bored with her and move on.

Distance yourself; see if she takes it to the next level after you remove your attention from the equation. This will show her true intentions.
 
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She's bored and has nothing better to do but not bored enough to do something in public with you. You're her Tamagotchi.
 
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Withdraw your availability on the phone and internet. Basically force her to make a choice between going out with you or not getting in touch with you at all. Her interest in you will become apparent. This route is the quickest way to seeing where she stands. So save yourself some time and try it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I just had a similiar experience. Trust me it isn't worth the stress and time...distance yourself...see what happens. If it still goes on then pretty much say what #2 post said.
 
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I too has a similar experinience with this girl Ive been seeing for close to 5 months. My issue was her withholding sex. I initiated a takeaway and it worked wonders. My girl was immediately responsive and seemed to be far more into me after the takeaway. Give it a try you'll be happy with the results.

I think you can't lose by initating a takeaway because both possible outcomes are good for you:

1. It's a wakeup call for her that you are the type of guy that requires her to be fully enagaged -- you become the prize.

or

2. She looses all interest and stops making any efforts to contact you -- you quit wasting your time -- your time is what's most precious here -- not her's.
 
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bigmil said:
I too has a similar experinience with this girl Ive been seeing for close to 5 months. My issue was her withholding sex. I initiated a takeaway and it worked wonders. My girl was immediately responsive and seemed to be far more into me after the takeaway. Give it a try you'll be happy with the results.

I think you can't lose by initating a takeaway because both possible outcomes are good for you:

1. It's a wakeup call fro her that you are the type of guy that requires her to be fully enagaged -- you become the prize.

or

2. She looses all interest and stops making any efforts to contact you -- you quit wasting your time -- your time is what's most precious here -- not her's.
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agreed. She is just bored. Use the take-away technique.

I'm currently trying this on a girl that flaked on me last night. I went out to the lunch hall where she was working and got a new girls number.

Which brought me to my new conclusion is that I was not spinning enough plates. Now, I am spinning three plates consecutively. I plan on spinning more plates shortly.

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tadhgire said:
Title summarized it.. When I contact her, always seems like shes been waiting for me to call, if I dont contact her first, she contacts me, when I go online in msn and stuff she magically appears seconds later.. yet she rarely actually wants to hang out... Is she scared? Is she tryin the old 'the more you make him wait, the more he'l want you' routine? I HAVE NO IDEA WTF IS GOING ON :p

please help guys lol..
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Dont respond to her right away. Let me tell you something... Women go Insane if you dont reply or contact them back. she will wonder whats going on.
 
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