"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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she calls me at 4 in the morning

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this girl that im trying to get with, she calls me at 4 in the morning and I answered and she tells me how she had a nightmare and she dreams and she gets stuck in her dreams and cant wake up, blah blah. im just talking to her and telling her bullshyt while she tells me about how she hates having nightmares.

what should i tell her when she calls me the next day?? should I be C&F or neg her? Also could this be a huge IOI because she chooses to call me out of everyone else? I Dunno if she called anyone else but it seems like im the one she called and then after she talks to me she goes back to sleep. Not sure how to handle the situation tho, should I neg her tomorrow or just be C&F?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dude, not everything should be neghit, blah blah blah... take a chill pill

she called you because she had a nightmare! she wanted someone to care man...
 
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dannyegg4575 said:
Dude, not everything should be neghit, blah blah blah... take a chill pill

she called you because she had a nightmare! she wanted someone to care man...
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2 words, freddy kruger
 
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baurman said:
this girl that im trying to get with, she calls me at 4 in the morning and I answered and she tells me how she had a nightmare and she dreams and she gets stuck in her dreams and cant wake up, blah blah. im just talking to her and telling her bullshyt while she tells me about how she hates having nightmares.

what should i tell her when she calls me the next day?? should I be C&F or neg her? Also could this be a huge IOI because she chooses to call me out of everyone else? I Dunno if she called anyone else but it seems like im the one she called and then after she talks to me she goes back to sleep. Not sure how to handle the situation tho, should I neg her tomorrow or just be C&F?
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Use it to your advantage and set up a date.. that would have been the right thing to do.
 
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There are very few reasons someone will call you at 4am in the morning:

1) They forgot they're in a far away time zone
2) Someone you know has been hospitalised or killed
3) It is a matter of national security (only if you're the President or something)
4) They hate you and are trying to piss you off
5) They are totally into you and have been thinking about you all night, and are the first person they look to when they want someone to comfort them from 'nightmares'

Sounds like an IOI to me. Come back when she randomly appears whenever you open your front door.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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so she must be diggin me then...
should i just wait for her to call me now since im in control? when we talk i probably wont mention anything about her calling me at 4 in the morn.
 
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so she must be diggin me then...
should i just wait for her to call me now since im in control? when we talk i probably wont mention anything about her calling me at 4 in the morn.
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She likes you. You are the man! She wanted to suck your d!ck last night when she called. CALL HER and set up a date. Why do you want to wait around? While you are waiting around, a DJ like me is going to chat her up and bang her so you will never hear from her again. You had your chance buddy.
 
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set up a date and discuss it further man...
 
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Hmm...I would have told her to come over and I would protect her in my bed, but guess you missed out.
 
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"Well baby let me turn ur nightmare into a wet dream."
Simple answer she likes you why else would she call you at 4 in the morning. Aka she wanted you to comfort for her. Hell could have been a booty call had you played your cards right.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i wouldnt have answered. TO me, a girl who calls at 4 in the morning to talk just wants to see if youll always answer her calls no matter what.
 
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