"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She called me "sexed b!tch"

ICaughtFire

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i was on msn with this girl i know from school, we met when we were told to be in the same band by another friend and we only met for a week

but the convo was good with decent flirting in between about sex and what we both want from eachother etc

at then when i told her i need to sleep now bb she typed: goodnight my sexed b!tch"

what is she implying?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She's just joking around with you. Good vibes!
 

cablecow15

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oh man that sucks for you
basicly she lied to find out what
you were thinking. I hate when they do that:mad:
 

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or it means that she thinks your crazy about sex
 

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Dam it sounds like your in the "zone"..she feels too comfrtable with you...your just a good friend to her who she can talk like that too. Now unless this girl is a total slut than it might mean she wants u to F_U-c_k her brains out.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by cablecow15
or it means that she thinks your crazy about sex
Dood you seriously need to chill and relax. You take things so seriously and literally.
 

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You are all stupid. She was just teasing around.

Originally posted by Holland
She's just joking around with you. Good vibes!
^^^ Correct.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by ICaughtFire
so what is it really......
Do you ride the short bus? Look above youre last post smart guy.
 
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