"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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she called me out on my lines haha

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So i am chatting this hottie up on face book and ask her what some of her talents are. she told me she couldn't think of any, but was wondering what mine are. i told her a few and than messaged back. I am sure your not just a pretty face u can think of some talents. she than asked me if my lines really work on girls.
I am wondering how one should handle this question. I told her that my buisness with other girls is my buisness and that I asked her what her talents are because there are alot of beautiful girls out there but there only quality is that there pretty and that she still has not answered my question. she than replied that she is good at cooking and school.
Did i handle this correctly and how can i improve, i have a feeling i will be asked this again in the future
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SandHawk

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You bend the question around and turn it into a witty remark back:

"I don't know. Lemme check in with one of them."
*wait 2 minutes, grab yourself a beer or something*
"Hey, are you falling for my smooth lines?"

Voila, sh*tty question turned into something witty that throws her off.
 

Credos

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Answer to the question is:

"I don't know, do they?"
 

Marvin Gaye

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Snowman said:
I told her that my buisness with other girls is my buisness and that I asked her what her talents are because there are alot of beautiful girls out there but there only quality is that there pretty and that she still has not answered my question.

Nice show of insecurity.

At least you got some experience with sh­it tests, and gave me some insight into them as well! So thanks for the thread Snowdog. Personally though you she didn't deserve a big explanation, she deserved a demeaning sarcastic remark for such a quesiton.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Diaforetikos

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I woulda said, "Yep."

The shorter the wit, the funnier it sounds.

Also, just some advice, loosen up in your online conversations. Try to make your dialog as human as possible. And have fun with it. Girls don't wanna deal with some stiff uptight character. They want someone who is lively and witty.
 

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So, you meant your question to her as a line? It didn't come across as a line to me. I think it's a genuine question she didn't answer. The fact that she couldn't even tell you something to me is a turn off when I talk to girls. I don't like girls who are nothing but pretty faces. It means after we do it there's nothing more to them this ends up boring me and not motivating me to pursue any more than the hook ups and eventually they start to realize that this is all they are and then they get pissed or want to pursue a relationship that I'm not willing to give them due to their lack of personality.
To answer your question I guess you can use any of the above lines the guys gave you or you could've just said, "Lol, you call that a line? Sorry I don't believe in lines but I seek quality in my girls"
 
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