"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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she called me out on my lines haha

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So i am chatting this hottie up on face book and ask her what some of her talents are. she told me she couldn't think of any, but was wondering what mine are. i told her a few and than messaged back. I am sure your not just a pretty face u can think of some talents. she than asked me if my lines really work on girls.
I am wondering how one should handle this question. I told her that my buisness with other girls is my buisness and that I asked her what her talents are because there are alot of beautiful girls out there but there only quality is that there pretty and that she still has not answered my question. she than replied that she is good at cooking and school.
Did i handle this correctly and how can i improve, i have a feeling i will be asked this again in the future
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SandHawk

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You bend the question around and turn it into a witty remark back:

"I don't know. Lemme check in with one of them."
*wait 2 minutes, grab yourself a beer or something*
"Hey, are you falling for my smooth lines?"

Voila, sh*tty question turned into something witty that throws her off.
 

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Answer to the question is:

"I don't know, do they?"
 

Marvin Gaye

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Snowman said:
I told her that my buisness with other girls is my buisness and that I asked her what her talents are because there are alot of beautiful girls out there but there only quality is that there pretty and that she still has not answered my question.

Nice show of insecurity.

At least you got some experience with sh­it tests, and gave me some insight into them as well! So thanks for the thread Snowdog. Personally though you she didn't deserve a big explanation, she deserved a demeaning sarcastic remark for such a quesiton.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I woulda said, "Yep."

The shorter the wit, the funnier it sounds.

Also, just some advice, loosen up in your online conversations. Try to make your dialog as human as possible. And have fun with it. Girls don't wanna deal with some stiff uptight character. They want someone who is lively and witty.
 

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So, you meant your question to her as a line? It didn't come across as a line to me. I think it's a genuine question she didn't answer. The fact that she couldn't even tell you something to me is a turn off when I talk to girls. I don't like girls who are nothing but pretty faces. It means after we do it there's nothing more to them this ends up boring me and not motivating me to pursue any more than the hook ups and eventually they start to realize that this is all they are and then they get pissed or want to pursue a relationship that I'm not willing to give them due to their lack of personality.
To answer your question I guess you can use any of the above lines the guys gave you or you could've just said, "Lol, you call that a line? Sorry I don't believe in lines but I seek quality in my girls"
 
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