"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She called me in the middle of the night.

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... and I like my sleep.

Riddle me this: how do you guys deal with girls that just won't let you have some peace? But you don't want to get rid of 'em either? :p

First thing she says: I couldn't sleep. :-/ Is it okey to respond with something like: "So you don't want others to sleep either?"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lebRambo

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if its not a booty call, a late night call is not acceptable. let her know this.
 

Lost In Translation

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my 2 mobile phones ( cell phones ) go on silent mode while i slumber

if it's important or an emergency they can text message me ( sms ) and i will decide if it is an emergency usually when i wake up the next day after the trouble has gone away :)

no chick has my home phone number


Lost In Translation :D

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“ What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice? “
 

the_great_gaia

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why would you even pick up the phone? Better yet, why don't you turn it off and let her tell it to the machine?
 

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someone should create a method for cell phones so that the ring part would automatically go to silent at 12:00 am or whenever set time.

ingeniuis i am, motherf uckers.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Keeper
... and I like my sleep.

Riddle me this: how do you guys deal with girls that just won't let you have some peace? But you don't want to get rid of 'em either? :p

First thing she says: I couldn't sleep. :-/ Is it okey to respond with something like: "So you don't want others to sleep either?"
Tell her to come over.

Then f00k her brains out.
 

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Always answer the question,

"Did I wake you up?"

with, "I can't really talk right now."

It gets 'em thinking.
 

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Light sleepers. :rolleyes: I had a girl call last night but it didn't wake me up. Kinda surprised me when I woke up this morning and saw I had a voice mail.
 

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My phone has been death for the past week.......no calls from girls.....only friends on the wekends but thats it.

I miss when my girl called me at 2am and I just ignored the call......she'd always call first thing in the morning....

:(
 

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Originally posted by bullmoose
Always answer the question,

"Did I wake you up?"

with, "I can't really talk right now."

It gets 'em thinking.
:crackup: OMG I so have to use that one some day :crackup:

BTW I always leave my cell downstairs when I go to sleep, it's never in my bedroom during the night. And just like Lost In Translation said, I'll answer any voicemails in the morning after the emergency is all gone :D
However there were some fun calls I got late at night like when my buddy got stuck 4wheeling in this one field at night and called for me to come winch him out before the cops spotted him :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I always, always, answer my phone. I have to; I do business on other countries' timetables.

I made it very clear to my crew that if they call me after midnight and there's not a dead body involved, there will be one before I'm through. Because of this, I know that a late-night call from a friend is going to be worth answering.
 
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