"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She blows me but doesn't let me finger her

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Yeah I've actually noticed this a couple of times with girls. If im doing really well during the date, and I use my kissing and necking skills to get her very horny, we both have a great time, but it's happened two times already where they were happy to give me a BJ, but wouldn't let me finger her or go down on her. Believe me, I dont mind the BJ's, but I would prefer to reciprocate. I dont know if the girls are just insecure or what. Oh and by the way this is all in my car somewhere late at night after the date.
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Why are you complaining? Dude?! - It's less work for you. Blow your wad and throw her out of the car. Just to be nice, throw her 5 bucks to call a taxi.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dude some girls just love suckin on a big dyck.

Back in HS my friends girl used to suck me off all the time. She told me it was because it used to get her off.
 
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Dude some girls just love suckin on a big dyck.

Back in HS my friends girl used to suck me off all the time. She told me it was because it used to get her off.
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And did your friend approve of this arrangement? lmao.
 
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Naw, he never knew about it, but she used to tell me she loved to suck my dyck
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wasnt the smartest or most respectful thing I ever did, but I cant change that now.

And to tell you the truth. I dont talk to him any more, and still hit that from time to time, so all works out in the end
 
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What's the problem?
I have the opposite problem, she does everything with me, and I can do everything with her...except she just doesn't want to give me a BJ:eek: :confused:
 
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Bl0wjobs are kinda overrated.
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Very overrated, IMO. Even the ones that are really good at it its just so-so for me. No comparison to being inside them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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just wait guys... lol... I've had BJ's before where my eyes were rolling into the back of my head it was so good. Pvssy has never done that too me.

some girls a very talented.
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A good BJ is like tearing into a free Delmonico from a high end steak house.

An average or below average BJ is like the all you can eat buffet at Ponderosa. Good if you haven't eaten in awhile, but not something I would go out of my way for.
 
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and this is a problem? i get to sit back and get my nobb sucked on with no expecation of me returning the favor? hell where is this broad at!!!
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Wish I could rep you for that. To the guys who think it's overrated: You ain't never had a good one. Properly done it's one of the finest things in life but a lot of chicks just ah, suck at it. You know what I mean.
 
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I agree with BBJ's better than sex

Nothing better than looking down and seeing a hot looking girl suckin on my black dyck
 
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Bl0wjobs are kinda overrated.
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No dude you loose cool points for that:down:
 
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:D Give me head until I'm dead!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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