"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She blows me but doesn't let me finger her

senator

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Social_disturbance said:
Yeah I've actually noticed this a couple of times with girls. If im doing really well during the date, and I use my kissing and necking skills to get her very horny, we both have a great time, but it's happened two times already where they were happy to give me a BJ, but wouldn't let me finger her or go down on her. Believe me, I dont mind the BJ's, but I would prefer to reciprocate. I dont know if the girls are just insecure or what. Oh and by the way this is all in my car somewhere late at night after the date.

Why are you complaining? Dude?! - It's less work for you. Blow your wad and throw her out of the car. Just to be nice, throw her 5 bucks to call a taxi.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ShortyMac

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Dude some girls just love suckin on a big dyck.

Back in HS my friends girl used to suck me off all the time. She told me it was because it used to get her off.
 

KontrollerX

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Dude some girls just love suckin on a big dyck.

Back in HS my friends girl used to suck me off all the time. She told me it was because it used to get her off.
And did your friend approve of this arrangement? lmao.
 

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Naw, he never knew about it, but she used to tell me she loved to suck my dyck
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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wasnt the smartest or most respectful thing I ever did, but I cant change that now.

And to tell you the truth. I dont talk to him any more, and still hit that from time to time, so all works out in the end
 

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What's the problem?
I have the opposite problem, she does everything with me, and I can do everything with her...except she just doesn't want to give me a BJ:eek: :confused:
 

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Bl0wjobs are kinda overrated.
Very overrated, IMO. Even the ones that are really good at it its just so-so for me. No comparison to being inside them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Randallpink83 said:
just wait guys... lol... I've had BJ's before where my eyes were rolling into the back of my head it was so good. Pvssy has never done that too me.

some girls a very talented.
A good BJ is like tearing into a free Delmonico from a high end steak house.

An average or below average BJ is like the all you can eat buffet at Ponderosa. Good if you haven't eaten in awhile, but not something I would go out of my way for.
 

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backbreaker said:
and this is a problem? i get to sit back and get my nobb sucked on with no expecation of me returning the favor? hell where is this broad at!!!

Wish I could rep you for that. To the guys who think it's overrated: You ain't never had a good one. Properly done it's one of the finest things in life but a lot of chicks just ah, suck at it. You know what I mean.
 

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I agree with BBJ's better than sex

Nothing better than looking down and seeing a hot looking girl suckin on my black dyck
 

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Social_disturbance said:
Bl0wjobs are kinda overrated.
No dude you loose cool points for that:down:
 

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:D Give me head until I'm dead!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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