"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She blows me but doesn't let me finger her

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Yeah I've actually noticed this a couple of times with girls. If im doing really well during the date, and I use my kissing and necking skills to get her very horny, we both have a great time, but it's happened two times already where they were happy to give me a BJ, but wouldn't let me finger her or go down on her. Believe me, I dont mind the BJ's, but I would prefer to reciprocate. I dont know if the girls are just insecure or what. Oh and by the way this is all in my car somewhere late at night after the date.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Has to be something wrong with her, like herpies, she didn't wash her a55, menstruating, etc..
 
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Hmm, maybe they're just sluts?? Lol.

More likely, they don't feel comfortable in the environment. Try to get them in bed rather than your car.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I used to work at a ski shop when I ski bummed years ago, and had to do a "boot fit" with this woman whose clam absolutely reeked. She was sitting down and I had my face about a foot from her snatch. Seriously, I almost puked. The sick thing was that she KNEW she reeked. How could she not? She came in about two days later and discretely apologized to me for her "fragrance issues," as she put it.

That's the story I thought of when I read your post. Most likely it's an issue with her box. But "heavy petting" in the car might have a bit to do with it also, like AceOfFlames said. My two cents...
 
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Don't complain you got your **** sucked. nuff said.
 
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Some girls just arnt confortable with guys going down on them.
 
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I remember a girl who's ***** smelled like a rotten burrito.

Those things can get nasty. I don't know what was up with that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ER!C L!VE said:
You sure it wasn't a tranny?
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Yep very sure.. I was 17 at the time.

So tell us how are those trannys you know so much about?
 
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my girlfriend was uncomfortable, but I came unto the scene and everything changed because of that. :p

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and this is a problem? i get to sit back and get my nobb sucked on with no expecation of me returning the favor? hell where is this broad at!!!
 
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the girl at the ski shop actually came back later and said sorry for her smelly *****???...... wow.... what a depressing life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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backbreaker said:
and this is a problem? i get to sit back and get my nobb sucked on with no expecation of me returning the favor? hell where is this broad at!!!
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Bl0wjobs are kinda overrated.
 
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just wait guys... lol... I've had BJ's before where my eyes were rolling into the back of my head it was so good. Pvssy has never done that too me.

some girls a very talented.
 
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speakeasy said:
I agree. The first time I ever got one I was like "this is it???"
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Same for me, I much prefer sex. The problem is way too much hype.

Or Perhaps none of them have known what the fvck they were doing, which thinking about it, is fairly likely.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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