"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she blocked me when i called her out on her 'what do you do for a living?' question!

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The what you do for a living question is cool, it's this question below that bothers me


"So where do you see yourself in 5 years? HUH:confused:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Any question a chick asks is good because it conveys interest on her part...there are no red flags....there is just going along with her BS and banging her....it's really simple....next time let her your penis do the thinking and forget about any BS dating advice...i always lie about my job....a good job attracts gold diggers for sex as well as status seekers which all women are....

Delta pilot is a good one to use when they ask this question and then when they act all impress try your best to downplay it...you better believe they are getting wet thinking about it...

Even if a chick straight up asks you how much money do you make...this is not a red flag...on the contrary, it's a green flag...it means she will f$ck you if you say a high salary...

You should only be thinking about getting inside her ***** and that's it....
 

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zinc4 said:
You should only be thinking about getting inside her ***** and that's it....
That's an interesting point of view.
 

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POF of course.

An attractive blonde messages me (Red flag in itself). Twice within 5 mins. The second message asking if I speak because I hadn't replied. Another Red flag right there.

So not 5 messages in she asks me what I do for a living. Normally I would have answered in a boring fashion exactly what I did for a living but remembering someone's post about this being a red flag I pointed this out to her that not 5 messages in she was asking what I did for a living and that this was a huge red flag.

Instant block. No excuses or anything. Interesting, isn't it?
Bro POF is strictly....STRICTLY for meeting slooters to bang and ditch. Every female on that site is either low quality, crazy, or damaged goods. Yes a lot of hot ones on the site but when she messages you first why not just go along with whatever she says...meet up....fuk...next.

I would of made up some bull**** job that sounds like I make a fuk ton of money. If you aren't on the site to bang, just get off of it.
 
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