"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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she blocked me when i called her out on her 'what do you do for a living?' question!

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The what you do for a living question is cool, it's this question below that bothers me


"So where do you see yourself in 5 years? HUH:confused:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Any question a chick asks is good because it conveys interest on her part...there are no red flags....there is just going along with her BS and banging her....it's really simple....next time let her your penis do the thinking and forget about any BS dating advice...i always lie about my job....a good job attracts gold diggers for sex as well as status seekers which all women are....

Delta pilot is a good one to use when they ask this question and then when they act all impress try your best to downplay it...you better believe they are getting wet thinking about it...

Even if a chick straight up asks you how much money do you make...this is not a red flag...on the contrary, it's a green flag...it means she will f$ck you if you say a high salary...

You should only be thinking about getting inside her ***** and that's it....
 

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zinc4 said:
You should only be thinking about getting inside her ***** and that's it....
That's an interesting point of view.
 

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POF of course.

An attractive blonde messages me (Red flag in itself). Twice within 5 mins. The second message asking if I speak because I hadn't replied. Another Red flag right there.

So not 5 messages in she asks me what I do for a living. Normally I would have answered in a boring fashion exactly what I did for a living but remembering someone's post about this being a red flag I pointed this out to her that not 5 messages in she was asking what I did for a living and that this was a huge red flag.

Instant block. No excuses or anything. Interesting, isn't it?
Bro POF is strictly....STRICTLY for meeting slooters to bang and ditch. Every female on that site is either low quality, crazy, or damaged goods. Yes a lot of hot ones on the site but when she messages you first why not just go along with whatever she says...meet up....fuk...next.

I would of made up some bull**** job that sounds like I make a fuk ton of money. If you aren't on the site to bang, just get off of it.
 
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