"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She asked me if I'm falling in love with her...

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How would you usually respond to this? This girl asks me "Are you falling in love with me...?" I looked at her and I asked her the same question. Then she repeated the question and I was like "Nah.."
I only said that because obviously I am not going to say Yeah and probably scare her. But what should I have said? I felt like I was in a lose-lose situation no matter what I answered with.
 

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Hmm.. maybe say something like "girl I've got nothing but love for ya".. have you banged her yet?
 
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yes we've had sex, she asked me that when we just finished having sex when I was about to leave and I told her that I'll see her again soon, thats when she asked me "are you falling in love with me?"
 
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baurman said:
yes we've had sex, she asked me that when we just finished having sex when I was about to leave and I told her that I'll see her again soon, thats when she asked me "are you falling in love with me?"
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Maybe you should have said something like "when pigs fly" LOL!

Maybe that's going overboard, but they love jerks.
 
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Thats a weird question to be asked...I probably would've been non-committal with my answer and teased her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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baurman said:
yes we've had sex, she asked me that when we just finished having sex when I was about to leave and I told her that I'll see her again soon, thats when she asked me "are you falling in love with me?"
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Her: Are you falling in love with me?

You: I'm fvcking you. ain't I?

Her: But do you respect me in the morning?

You: I don't respect you now.

Her: Will I see you in the future?

You: If I don't see you in the future, I'll see you in the pasture.



Cheers!
 
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Her: Are you falling in love with me?

You: I'm fvcking you. ain't I?

Her: But do you respect me in the morning?

You: I don't respect you now.

Her: Will I see you in the future?

You: If I don't see you in the future, I'll see you in the pasture.



Cheers!
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I LOL'd!
 
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That was a trap/sh1t test. She set you up right after sex when your mind is all cleared up and all you want to do is go to sleep or fvck again.

You realise once a woman asks you this question then it means that she is looking for a commitment, and if you don't want an LTR then all you can do now is just stall.

I would have looked her right in her eyes and say in the most suave way "stick with me and you will find out" and then give her a good kiss on her lips.

That should shut her up and buy you at least another two months.
 
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baurman said:
How would you usually respond to this? This girl asks me "Are you falling in love with me...?" I looked at her and I asked her the same question. Then she repeated the question and I was like "Nah.."
I only said that because obviously I am not going to say Yeah and probably scare her. But what should I have said? I felt like I was in a lose-lose situation no matter what I answered with.
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Translation: "You seem to be getting alittle clingy and its turning me off..."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Translation: "You seem to be getting alittle clingy and its turning me off..."
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Thats what I was thinking.

But it could have been one of those situations where she is trying to get him in a LTR.


Honestly I would have said something weird like "Moofahsa ain't never loved no ho!" in some cheezy rapper voice...rolled over and gone to sleep haha.
 
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