she ask for your number and when u call no reply

[onewayticket21]

i was in a club and this girl came and met me, and we spend the next 5 hour together in the club, in between we drank, smoke and talked a lot and danced, and in between she also told, i need your number so i gave her mine and she gave me hers. and when we left she asked me about going to the park on sunday, and i said i will call her on sunday, and i send her a text on sunday, saying i did not want to wake her up if she is sleeping, and suggested where to meet to go to the park, and there was no reply, then i called aher number and it was ringing but no one picked up. am just trying to figure out the reason for this, and whether to contact again...

 

[TheMale]

shes taking the control since the begining and you playin the nice guy
a text to say you didnt want to wake her up ?!
excuse me but its kinda lame ... (dont take it personal)
shes probably think your not a real man cause after 5hours you didnt try anything)
she took your number she tel you to come to the park sunday ..


why you didnt kiss close her or something else then just number close after 5hours spent together and dancing ??

why are you sending a text instead of call her (its not a reason to say i didnt want to wake her up)

if you want to take control
call her in a week like nothing happened and if shes asking about sunday you say that you had some last minutes things to do

 

[Diaforetikos]

TheMale summed it up exactly. She has your number. If she is really interested, she'll contact you.

And why didn't you make a move at the club? She was ready for yout to escalate the situation, but you didn't take action. What were you afraid of?! She woulda let you know if she didnt like you like that, and this thread would have never been started.

Next time, be a man, step up to the plate, and take a risk. Stop trying to be so safe.

 

[snowdog]

i was in a club and this girl came and met me, and we spend the next 5 hour together in the club, in between we drank, smoke and talked a lot and danced, and in between she also told, i need your number so i gave her mine and she gave me hers. and when we left she asked me about going to the park on sunday, and i said i will call her on sunday, and i send her a text on sunday, saying i did not want to wake her up if she is sleeping, and suggested where to meet to go to the park, and there was no reply, then i called aher number and it was ringing but no one picked up. am just trying to figure out the reason for this, and whether to contact again...

Chicks can be weird like that.

Sometimes they won't respond to you even though you hung out with them for hours.

Sometimes they'll be all over you if you only talked with them for five minutes waiting for the train.


Did you made out with her on that night, or at least tried to? If not, that might be the reason she lost interest.

Also, why would you text her if she told you to call her? You're being too careful. By doing it this way, you're basically telling her you're eagerly waiting for her to reply, which isn't a very attractive thought to her. I think this is the part where you lost it. I'm also curious what you put in the text message?

I wasn't there with you to see it going down so don't take this as the absolute truth, but this kind of sh*t happened to me a dozen times (my excessive experimenting over the years put me in pretty much every situation imaginable). Sometimes chicks will flake on you because you mess it up without even knowing it. There are all kinds of very subtle messages you send out without realizing it.

Sometimes chicks will flake on you for no reason at all. That's why you shouldn't care when something like this happens. It's no big deal, there are tons of girls out there. That's why you should approach non-stop and get numbers non-stop. Aside from getting better at this, it'll give you options to play with.v

 

[onewayticket21]

hey yeah, that was pretty lame, and am not taking it personal..

why send her a text instead of call, because it was too early, i ahd an appointment witha friend, so i texted her at noon, and we left club around 7 in the morning, i wont be happy if some one call me at that time too

and this place was more like a electronic music place, I went there cause i like the music, its not a typical pick up place. i was more surprised when she did not respond, after she suggests to meet up. she did not have to say so.

but people could be weird.. but still it was like a nice dream, i think it will happen again

Chicks can be weird like that.

Sometimes they won't respond to you even though you hung out with them for hours.

Sometimes they'll be all over you if you only talked with them for five minutes waiting for the train.


Did you made out with her on that night, or at least tried to? If not, that might be the reason she lost interest.

Also, why would you text her if she told you to call her? You're being too careful. By doing it this way, you're basically telling her you're eagerly waiting for her to reply, which isn't a very attractive thought to her. I think this is the part where you lost it. I'm also curious what you put in the text message?

I wasn't there with you to see it going down so don't take this as the absolute truth, but this kind of sh*t happened to me a dozen times (my excessive experimenting over the years put me in pretty much every situation imaginable). Sometimes chicks will flake on you because you mess it up without even knowing it. There are all kinds of very subtle messages you send out without realizing it.

Sometimes chicks will flake on you for no reason at all. That's why you shouldn't care when something like this happens. It's no big deal, there are tons of girls out there. That's why you should approach non-stop and get numbers non-stop. Aside from getting better at this, it'll give you options to play with.v