“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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She approaches me...

saturos

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...and half the time i don't really have anything to say.
I know its because i'm choking as i like the girl, and i'm trying to think of something funny or something to say, which ****blocks myself, but i can't stop.

She always comes up to me like "Hey saturos~!" and then starts to walk with me, and i feel like i'm thinking a mile a minute but the road i'm on is bleak and empty.

I'm almost certain this chick is into me, and i've been trying to let my nuts drop and escalate and stuffs, but i still choke big time whenever she comes up to me.

Any tips? Thanks. I think for the most part it should just be for me to relax, but seeing as i'm failing hard, any other advice would be appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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S.Y.L

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ask whats up, what shes doing on the weekend, hows your day been, what class do you have


**** like that, makes it easy
 

Scars

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Say ANYTHING. C+F is good and all, but a lot of people forget that C+F is mainly a tool used to build attraction. This girl is obviously attracted, so skip the bullsh!t and get in with it already. However, it's still always good to be C+F as much as possible don't make it a priority or let it keep you from talking, it will end up sounding rehearsed or out of place. Just go with the flow, in all honesty just keep doing what you're doing. She's attracted to you for some reason, so why try and stir up your regime in an attempt to be casanova?
 

saturos

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Yea this chick is the next door neighbor of one of my best friends (but a year lower, so i didn't know her before) and she is always texting me stuff like "u shuld come over 2 (friend)'s house rite now haha" and she always talks about how i should come over when i'm at my friend's.
And whenever the chick comes up in a convo, my friend's are like "yea that chick is on your nuts all the time man."

So its like now that i have her attracted, i'm cracking. Penis.
Live and learn, i suppose. I guess i should just do whatever the fvck and ask her to hang out and stuffs.
 

Analyzeit

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She's obviously interested, your mates know it, you know it and her mates probably know it.

When they are attracted you can practically get away with anything almost haha but it's pretty certain she's attracted so just use all the advice on the website, as you said hang and do that stuff.

Also follow S.Y.L and scars advice you don't have to be funny and escalating all the time, and when you ask just the simple questions and you should be able to make something funny up at what she says and if you don't it doesn't matter.

Save all the escalating for alone time or hanging out, just get your balls up and do it, remember that if she's attracted you can get away with heaps
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Captain Harlock

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If a chick comes up to you it should be easy. Do you ever meet her outside daytime, like in a club or something? The atmosphere should be more relaxed and easier to allow you to escalate.
 
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