"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She 18, and I'm turning 21..

aznxboi

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So she 18 years old just graduated from high school going into college freshman year, and I'm turning 21 soon going into my senior year. What do you fellas think of the age gap?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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strong like bull

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**** the rules - do what you want.

my gf was 17 to my 22 at the time when i met her. if i wouldve passed her up because of someone elses made up rule, id have missed out on some amazing experiences. over 2 years now and going strong.

plus, 18 - 21 isnt even that big of a gap.

you only live once. if you like her, go for it.

live life at your own level. let everyone on the sidelines worry about "rules" and guidelines.

-slb
 

aznxboi

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FML, you guys are so damn right! I know I can pull it off too, but ****. Somewhere in my mind, I kinda don't want to face people calling me a 'pedo' Even though I don't give a ****, but it will eventually get on my nerves.
 
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aznxboi said:
FML, you guys are so damn right! I know I can pull it off too, but ****. Somewhere in my mind, I kinda don't want to face people calling me a 'pedo' Even though I don't give a ****, but it will eventually get on my nerves.
I don't understand where you got the pedo idea from.

1st. You shouln't care what people say....
2nd. Its not a big deal.... unless your 23+
3rd. She old enough to decided if she gets wet of your c0CK
4th. Im 20 and i date 18 year olds and no complaints
5th. You have 5 fingers. Use them to massage her her body already
6th. the only difference between six and sex is I. I will ask her out.
Tell yourself that.... simon says tell yourself that
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MisterMcGee

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thats hardly an age gap, especially you both being college-age.
 

Sir_Turtle

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Doesn't seem weird. happens all the time. And I know plenty and marriages with bigger age groups.
 

Maxtro

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I'm 27 and I've "dated" girls that are 18. By the time the fall semester starts I'm going to be 28 and I plan on hooking up with some of the incoming freshen.

Age ain't nothing but a number.
 

JCballin88

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I'm glad that the vote is you can feel reassured on this one, because I am facing a similar situation. I'm almost 21 and she just turned 18.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Go for it man.

I hope you have a thick skin though. Eight-teen year olds are extreamly naive. Be prepaired to listen to a lot of stupid ****.

Im 22 and I have a ex-gf/current FB that is 18.
 

Alle_Gory

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alphaace said:
I hope you have a thick skin though. Eight-teen year olds are extreamly naive. Be prepaired to listen to a lot of stupid ****.
Not necessarily thick skin as patience. There's times when you feel like slamming your head against the wall to make the noise go away.
 

Dannyrt34

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I'm 22 but I really like to date girls close to my age, at least 21. The reason is we can go to bars together, or on dinner dates just sample some new drinks. Being at least 21, it opens a whole new world of dates to go on.

Plus, seems to me lots of girls that are teenagers are pretty immature.
 

DonGorgon

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aznxboi said:
So she 18 years old just graduated from high school going into college freshman year, and I'm turning 21 soon going into my senior year. What do you fellas think of the age gap?
Ur silly dude every man wants to bang and 18 year are and many are.. 18 year olds have a wide variety of sexual partners .. you are never the only dude Fing her and you will be shocked to hear that she is Fing her 57 year old college professors..lol..

Many men understand that they have to be hypocritical about this issue and pretend they would never touch an 18 year old but behind closed doors is the opposite.
 

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no worries man, GO FOR IT.

alot of people seem to be cool with it,
well the people that don't have their heads stuck up their a$$e$.

since i was a kid until maybe 3 years ago,
i always had this belief that unless a girl was the same age as me i should'nt get with her.

i remember in 5th grade liking a new girl who was in the 4th grade, i thought that i should'nt go for a girl younger than me so i backed off.

in 7th grade i was shocked to hear that sum of my male classmates where going after the new female freshmen.

this belief was scarped when i started feeling attracted to a chick who was you guessed it, younger than me and because i seem to be the only person in my family who saw a problem with it.

18 (out of high school) and over for me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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