"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She 18, and I'm turning 21..
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
strong like bull
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my gf was 17 to my 22 at the time when i met her. if i wouldve passed her up because of someone elses made up rule, id have missed out on some amazing experiences. over 2 years now and going strong.
plus, 18 - 21 isnt even that big of a gap.
you only live once. if you like her, go for it.
live life at your own level. let everyone on the sidelines worry about "rules" and guidelines.
-slb
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I don't understand where you got the pedo idea from.aznxboi said:FML, you guys are so damn right! I know I can pull it off too, but ****. Somewhere in my mind, I kinda don't want to face people calling me a 'pedo' Even though I don't give a ****, but it will eventually get on my nerves.
1st. You shouln't care what people say....
2nd. Its not a big deal.... unless your 23+
3rd. She old enough to decided if she gets wet of your c0CK
4th. Im 20 and i date 18 year olds and no complaints
5th. You have 5 fingers. Use them to massage her her body already
6th. the only difference between six and sex is I. I will ask her out.
Tell yourself that.... simon says tell yourself that
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MisterMcGee
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Maxtro
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Age ain't nothing but a number.
JCballin88
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
alphaace
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I hope you have a thick skin though. Eight-teen year olds are extreamly naive. Be prepaired to listen to a lot of stupid ****.
Im 22 and I have a ex-gf/current FB that is 18.
Not necessarily thick skin as patience. There's times when you feel like slamming your head against the wall to make the noise go away.alphaace said:I hope you have a thick skin though. Eight-teen year olds are extreamly naive. Be prepaired to listen to a lot of stupid ****.
Dannyrt34
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Plus, seems to me lots of girls that are teenagers are pretty immature.
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Ur silly dude every man wants to bang and 18 year are and many are.. 18 year olds have a wide variety of sexual partners .. you are never the only dude Fing her and you will be shocked to hear that she is Fing her 57 year old college professors..lol..aznxboi said:So she 18 years old just graduated from high school going into college freshman year, and I'm turning 21 soon going into my senior year. What do you fellas think of the age gap?
Many men understand that they have to be hypocritical about this issue and pretend they would never touch an 18 year old but behind closed doors is the opposite.
Phenomenal One
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alot of people seem to be cool with it,
well the people that don't have their heads stuck up their a$$e$.
since i was a kid until maybe 3 years ago,
i always had this belief that unless a girl was the same age as me i should'nt get with her.
i remember in 5th grade liking a new girl who was in the 4th grade, i thought that i should'nt go for a girl younger than me so i backed off.
in 7th grade i was shocked to hear that sum of my male classmates where going after the new female freshmen.
this belief was scarped when i started feeling attracted to a chick who was you guessed it, younger than me and because i seem to be the only person in my family who saw a problem with it.
18 (out of high school) and over for me.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.