"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She 18, and I'm turning 21..

aznxboi

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So she 18 years old just graduated from high school going into college freshman year, and I'm turning 21 soon going into my senior year. What do you fellas think of the age gap?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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strong like bull

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**** the rules - do what you want.

my gf was 17 to my 22 at the time when i met her. if i wouldve passed her up because of someone elses made up rule, id have missed out on some amazing experiences. over 2 years now and going strong.

plus, 18 - 21 isnt even that big of a gap.

you only live once. if you like her, go for it.

live life at your own level. let everyone on the sidelines worry about "rules" and guidelines.

-slb
 

aznxboi

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FML, you guys are so damn right! I know I can pull it off too, but ****. Somewhere in my mind, I kinda don't want to face people calling me a 'pedo' Even though I don't give a ****, but it will eventually get on my nerves.
 
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aznxboi said:
FML, you guys are so damn right! I know I can pull it off too, but ****. Somewhere in my mind, I kinda don't want to face people calling me a 'pedo' Even though I don't give a ****, but it will eventually get on my nerves.
I don't understand where you got the pedo idea from.

1st. You shouln't care what people say....
2nd. Its not a big deal.... unless your 23+
3rd. She old enough to decided if she gets wet of your c0CK
4th. Im 20 and i date 18 year olds and no complaints
5th. You have 5 fingers. Use them to massage her her body already
6th. the only difference between six and sex is I. I will ask her out.
Tell yourself that.... simon says tell yourself that
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MisterMcGee

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thats hardly an age gap, especially you both being college-age.
 

Sir_Turtle

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Doesn't seem weird. happens all the time. And I know plenty and marriages with bigger age groups.
 

Maxtro

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I'm 27 and I've "dated" girls that are 18. By the time the fall semester starts I'm going to be 28 and I plan on hooking up with some of the incoming freshen.

Age ain't nothing but a number.
 

JCballin88

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I'm glad that the vote is you can feel reassured on this one, because I am facing a similar situation. I'm almost 21 and she just turned 18.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Go for it man.

I hope you have a thick skin though. Eight-teen year olds are extreamly naive. Be prepaired to listen to a lot of stupid ****.

Im 22 and I have a ex-gf/current FB that is 18.
 

Alle_Gory

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alphaace said:
I hope you have a thick skin though. Eight-teen year olds are extreamly naive. Be prepaired to listen to a lot of stupid ****.
Not necessarily thick skin as patience. There's times when you feel like slamming your head against the wall to make the noise go away.
 

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I'm 22 but I really like to date girls close to my age, at least 21. The reason is we can go to bars together, or on dinner dates just sample some new drinks. Being at least 21, it opens a whole new world of dates to go on.

Plus, seems to me lots of girls that are teenagers are pretty immature.
 

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aznxboi said:
So she 18 years old just graduated from high school going into college freshman year, and I'm turning 21 soon going into my senior year. What do you fellas think of the age gap?
Ur silly dude every man wants to bang and 18 year are and many are.. 18 year olds have a wide variety of sexual partners .. you are never the only dude Fing her and you will be shocked to hear that she is Fing her 57 year old college professors..lol..

Many men understand that they have to be hypocritical about this issue and pretend they would never touch an 18 year old but behind closed doors is the opposite.
 

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no worries man, GO FOR IT.

alot of people seem to be cool with it,
well the people that don't have their heads stuck up their a$$e$.

since i was a kid until maybe 3 years ago,
i always had this belief that unless a girl was the same age as me i should'nt get with her.

i remember in 5th grade liking a new girl who was in the 4th grade, i thought that i should'nt go for a girl younger than me so i backed off.

in 7th grade i was shocked to hear that sum of my male classmates where going after the new female freshmen.

this belief was scarped when i started feeling attracted to a chick who was you guessed it, younger than me and because i seem to be the only person in my family who saw a problem with it.

18 (out of high school) and over for me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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