"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Shaving

danro

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So I've been shaving my chest and stomach for awhile now but lately I've been getting black dots (where the hair is shaved but you can still see it under the skin). What should I do about this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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danro

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So I'm bumping this back up, sorry if that's against the forum rules.
 

ReZin

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Those are either blackheads or just the hair below the skin. Not really much you can do about it if it's just the hair, if it's blackheads you can try some blackhead cleaning solutions.
 

DannykDJ

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The problem with shaving your chest is that you have to shave it everyday if you want it to stay smooth.

The only way around that is getting it waxed once a month. I think waxing is a waste of money though.

Just shave it once a week or before you know you're going to take your shirt off

Make sure you use a cleanser and lotion as your chest can break out just as easily as your face and get razor bumps after shaving.
 

mintxx

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you have ingrown hairs or blackheads. or both. nasty.
only chicks i've known down under to like a shaved chest have been asians. this must be an american thing
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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decades

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hand your GF a sharpie and let her have some fun.
 
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