"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Shaving

danro

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So I've been shaving my chest and stomach for awhile now but lately I've been getting black dots (where the hair is shaved but you can still see it under the skin). What should I do about this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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danro

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So I'm bumping this back up, sorry if that's against the forum rules.
 

ReZin

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Those are either blackheads or just the hair below the skin. Not really much you can do about it if it's just the hair, if it's blackheads you can try some blackhead cleaning solutions.
 

DannykDJ

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The problem with shaving your chest is that you have to shave it everyday if you want it to stay smooth.

The only way around that is getting it waxed once a month. I think waxing is a waste of money though.

Just shave it once a week or before you know you're going to take your shirt off

Make sure you use a cleanser and lotion as your chest can break out just as easily as your face and get razor bumps after shaving.
 

mintxx

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you have ingrown hairs or blackheads. or both. nasty.
only chicks i've known down under to like a shaved chest have been asians. this must be an american thing
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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decades

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hand your GF a sharpie and let her have some fun.
 
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