"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Shaving down there - for men

PokerStar

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Just wanted to hear what you guys have to say in regards to shaving your armpits and crotch area. Also, have you heard any feed back from women who have seen you bald, trimmed or caveman?

Do you keep it nicely trimmed?
Do you go all caveman like?
or do you look like a 11 year old boy all bald?

Me?

I like it nicely trimmed but Im thinking of going bald.

What about you?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Die Hard

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I keep it short at my armpits, not ultra short but just so it looks decent.

Down there...I shave it completely bald. But I do that approximately once every 3 weeks, so it's only bald in the first week, the two weeks after that it looks trimmed.

I never got any comment about being bald down there, but I get positive feedback about the armpits.
 

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I just keep it trimmed real short, but not bald...shaving is just too much of a hassle.

As for the armpits, leave the hair there. Leave shaving arm pits to the ladies.
 

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I just keep it trimmed real short, but not bald...shaving is just too much of a hassle.

As for the armpits, leave the hair there. Leave shaving arm pits to the ladies.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lexington said:
I just keep it trimmed real short, but not bald...shaving is just too much of a hassle.

As for the armpits, leave the hair there. Leave shaving arm pits to the ladies.
Agreed.

Shaving armpits = homo

'Nuff said
 

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I got a nice norelco trimmer that I use for the short and curlies, chest/abdomen and armpits. I'm not an exceptionally hairy guy, but I do like to keep it tight. Especially if you lift, it just looks better trimmed. I only shave my face and occasionally the fencepost.
 

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Keep them all trimmed. If your armpit hair is particularly long, deodorant/antiperspirant is not as effective. For the genital area, it provides a sense of hygiene and upkeep.
 

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When I was on the track team, everybody shaved their armpits.

If you're one to do strenuous workouts or sprinting sessions, you'll notice that hair traps odor and bacteria.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FairShake

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Why would I shave down there...for a man?

I used to shave to make my peen appear larger. But that's just an optical illusion. Once they actually touch it, the illusion fades. So now I don't.
 

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One of my female friends was complaining" we have to shave down there, why don't men?" Told her "if you are ever worried about getting my hair in your teeth, I'll shave"
 

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I got trimmed when I had my orchiectomy for a testicular tumor. I somewhat liked the look - made me look like a porn star. :woo: But shaving the scrotum is definitely tricky!
 
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