"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Shaving down there - for men

PokerStar

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Just wanted to hear what you guys have to say in regards to shaving your armpits and crotch area. Also, have you heard any feed back from women who have seen you bald, trimmed or caveman?

Do you keep it nicely trimmed?
Do you go all caveman like?
or do you look like a 11 year old boy all bald?

Me?

I like it nicely trimmed but Im thinking of going bald.

What about you?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Die Hard

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I keep it short at my armpits, not ultra short but just so it looks decent.

Down there...I shave it completely bald. But I do that approximately once every 3 weeks, so it's only bald in the first week, the two weeks after that it looks trimmed.

I never got any comment about being bald down there, but I get positive feedback about the armpits.
 

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I just keep it trimmed real short, but not bald...shaving is just too much of a hassle.

As for the armpits, leave the hair there. Leave shaving arm pits to the ladies.
 

Lexington

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I just keep it trimmed real short, but not bald...shaving is just too much of a hassle.

As for the armpits, leave the hair there. Leave shaving arm pits to the ladies.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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runner83

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Lexington said:
I just keep it trimmed real short, but not bald...shaving is just too much of a hassle.

As for the armpits, leave the hair there. Leave shaving arm pits to the ladies.
Agreed.

Shaving armpits = homo

'Nuff said
 

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I got a nice norelco trimmer that I use for the short and curlies, chest/abdomen and armpits. I'm not an exceptionally hairy guy, but I do like to keep it tight. Especially if you lift, it just looks better trimmed. I only shave my face and occasionally the fencepost.
 

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Keep them all trimmed. If your armpit hair is particularly long, deodorant/antiperspirant is not as effective. For the genital area, it provides a sense of hygiene and upkeep.
 

GhostWriter

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When I was on the track team, everybody shaved their armpits.

If you're one to do strenuous workouts or sprinting sessions, you'll notice that hair traps odor and bacteria.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FairShake

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Why would I shave down there...for a man?

I used to shave to make my peen appear larger. But that's just an optical illusion. Once they actually touch it, the illusion fades. So now I don't.
 

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One of my female friends was complaining" we have to shave down there, why don't men?" Told her "if you are ever worried about getting my hair in your teeth, I'll shave"
 

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I got trimmed when I had my orchiectomy for a testicular tumor. I somewhat liked the look - made me look like a porn star. :woo: But shaving the scrotum is definitely tricky!
 
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