"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Shaved legs or no?

Broken

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recently alot of my friends (guys) have been shaving thier legs. My first thought of course is WTF gay.. But I'm hearing from them that the girls actually like it, and a few girls Iv talked to have actually said they like it too. Any experience with this? How does this play into the game? Convo piece?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Juan and only

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My girlfriend says she doesn't like it. And frankly I think it's a little faggy myself.

honestly though, do what you want to do.
 

Alphamale1821

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it's just all those metro guys. I don't know what the damn deal is with men getting there eye brows plucked and shaving legs. Damn metro pretty boys lol.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NickBe

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Metrosexual is an overused, idiotic term.

Oh and don't shave your legs.
 

comic_relief

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although I hate body hair and shave my chest, private area, and face. I would not shave my legs or arms. Too wierd for me.

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Alphamale1821

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NickBe said:
Metrosexual is an overused, idiotic term.

Oh and don't shave your legs.
I Guess it's an "overused, idiotic term" that still applies to many men.:cool:
 
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