"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Shaved legs or no?

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recently alot of my friends (guys) have been shaving thier legs. My first thought of course is WTF gay.. But I'm hearing from them that the girls actually like it, and a few girls Iv talked to have actually said they like it too. Any experience with this? How does this play into the game? Convo piece?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Juan and only

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My girlfriend says she doesn't like it. And frankly I think it's a little faggy myself.

honestly though, do what you want to do.
 

Alphamale1821

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it's just all those metro guys. I don't know what the damn deal is with men getting there eye brows plucked and shaving legs. Damn metro pretty boys lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NickBe

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Metrosexual is an overused, idiotic term.

Oh and don't shave your legs.
 

comic_relief

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although I hate body hair and shave my chest, private area, and face. I would not shave my legs or arms. Too wierd for me.

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Alphamale1821

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NickBe said:
Metrosexual is an overused, idiotic term.

Oh and don't shave your legs.
I Guess it's an "overused, idiotic term" that still applies to many men.:cool:
 
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