"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Shaved head for an older guy.....

penkitten

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just make sure your change is for you
and that it says .. this is me
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Survivor

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Moved to Mature Man.....
 

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Depends on how close the cut will be. You also have to have the right shaped head for a really close cut, although you'll eventually get used to it. If you've got good bone structure in your face a shaved head may look really good. Sounds like you're dying to chop it off regardless...i say go for it!
 

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My dad cut his hair really short (no shaved though) at the age of 51 or something and I can say it looks kinda good on him.

Have a try. You ain't missing much if it doesn't look that good on you. Hair grow fast. ;)
 

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Yeah, I've got "Bruce Willis during Die Hard" hair. I keep it pretty short, and it's never been an issue.

If you're really self-concious about it, seek out the best hair stylist you can afford. Some of these chicks can work miracles, and I even got a couple of dates from one! Otherwise, whack it off. If people dig it, keep it shaved. If not, let it grow out and see the stylist previously mentioned.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Genghis Juan

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I shave my head, or just keep the hair barely longer than stubble at times. I've lost too much hair to consider any other options, especially transplants. Thankfully, I have a good shaped head and bone structure to look good with it.

Shaving your head will make you look younger. I hate the "balding" look.

As far as response from women goes, I've never had better responses since I had a full head of hair. :)
 

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Yes I think the Bruce Willis (Die Hard era) would be good for someone with thinning hair and a body that's been taken care of. Some women find shave head sexy but alot may find it intimidating (read: just-got-out-of-the-brig look).
 

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Originally posted by Gipper
Yeah, I've got "Bruce Willis during Die Hard" hair. I keep it pretty short, and it's never been an issue.

If you're really self-concious about it, seek out the best hair stylist you can afford. Some of these chicks can work miracles, and I even got a couple of dates from one! Otherwise, whack it off. If people dig it, keep it shaved. If not, let it grow out and see the stylist previously mentioned.

Gipper

Yeah, if you are gonna keep the hair, go get it done by a pro. Make sure you get a guy to cut your hair. Go to a saloon, don't worry about price and get your hair styled by a man(usually gay men work there, perfect). They are more in tune with what a man needs stlyle wise. Most of the guys that work at a saloon know what is going on. You and I might not notice the difference, but women know when you have a good haircut, even if they don't know how to give one. :cool:
 

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Go for it!!

I shaved my hair off about 6 months ago because it was thinning at the temples and I haven't looked back since, I get more attention from the females now than ever.

I also started going to the gym and changed my diet which has worked wonders too.
 
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