"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Shave the head.

duhbigman

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One little piece of advice. Might seem a little obvious, but I think it's important...

If you're already balding,
SHAVE THE WHOLE FRICKIN' THING.

Because women are not attracted to the receding hairline. If you're balding but clinging to the hair that's left, women automatically assume you're weak or lack confidence, even if it's not true.
If you go all the way and shave the head completely, some women find it attractive. A few might even think you look "dangerous".

Before I started shaving my head, my luck with women was wildly inconsistent. Shortly after I began doing so recently, I got about seven or eight phone numbers in one week. None of them were fake. This led to several first dates, which even led to a few second dates (with the ones I found most interesting), and the saga continues.

And it proves what I've been saying all along, although some self-righteous women will angrily deny it: Women are just as superficial about looks as men are. (Or as they say men are...)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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tactic

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it depends on your looks, not because of your hair only. alot of guys have their hairs near-bald and still get it good.
 

S0LID

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some people dont have the rite shaped head for a skin head.
 

Elimidate

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I agree 100%.

But, you're talking about an before and after senario...



Post a pic!

Elimidate!
 

Jay-X

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what if your ears are big? you would look ridicolous, wouldn't you
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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manuva

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Originally posted by Jay-X
what if your ears are big? you would look ridicolous, wouldn't you
Yes, so a ridiculous comb-over would make FAR more sense...
 

Jay-X

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Originally posted by manuva
Yes, so a ridiculous comb-over would make FAR more sense...
no, but short hair would make your ears less ridicolous than a shaved head
 

DonJuanMonk

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Depends. If you're dorky looking and you shave your head, you'll just perpetuate the problem.

Don't believe me? See "The Goonies" . However, if you're like Michael Jordan or that prowrestling freak of nature Steve Austin, then it'll work.
 

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What's the worst that could happen? Your hair will grow back, that's what. Wear a hat if you don't like your short hair in the interim. I don't see what the big deal is if you shave your head.

Allan
 

Smooth Player 056

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got any b4 and after pics?



- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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juaneo

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Shaved my head about a year ago after putting it off for ages, never looked back.

Quite a few people have told me that it makes me look mean, which can be a good thing as far as attracting the ladies goes, I get more attention off them now than ever.

Have started hitting the gym as well though, as there's nothing worse than a bald skinny bloke who looks like moby :D
 
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