"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Shave the head.

duhbigman

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One little piece of advice. Might seem a little obvious, but I think it's important...

If you're already balding,
SHAVE THE WHOLE FRICKIN' THING.

Because women are not attracted to the receding hairline. If you're balding but clinging to the hair that's left, women automatically assume you're weak or lack confidence, even if it's not true.
If you go all the way and shave the head completely, some women find it attractive. A few might even think you look "dangerous".

Before I started shaving my head, my luck with women was wildly inconsistent. Shortly after I began doing so recently, I got about seven or eight phone numbers in one week. None of them were fake. This led to several first dates, which even led to a few second dates (with the ones I found most interesting), and the saga continues.

And it proves what I've been saying all along, although some self-righteous women will angrily deny it: Women are just as superficial about looks as men are. (Or as they say men are...)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tactic

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it depends on your looks, not because of your hair only. alot of guys have their hairs near-bald and still get it good.
 

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some people dont have the rite shaped head for a skin head.
 

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I agree 100%.

But, you're talking about an before and after senario...



Post a pic!

Elimidate!
 

Jay-X

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what if your ears are big? you would look ridicolous, wouldn't you
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Jay-X
what if your ears are big? you would look ridicolous, wouldn't you
Yes, so a ridiculous comb-over would make FAR more sense...
 

Jay-X

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Originally posted by manuva
Yes, so a ridiculous comb-over would make FAR more sense...
no, but short hair would make your ears less ridicolous than a shaved head
 

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Depends. If you're dorky looking and you shave your head, you'll just perpetuate the problem.

Don't believe me? See "The Goonies" . However, if you're like Michael Jordan or that prowrestling freak of nature Steve Austin, then it'll work.
 

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What's the worst that could happen? Your hair will grow back, that's what. Wear a hat if you don't like your short hair in the interim. I don't see what the big deal is if you shave your head.

Allan
 

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got any b4 and after pics?



- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Shaved my head about a year ago after putting it off for ages, never looked back.

Quite a few people have told me that it makes me look mean, which can be a good thing as far as attracting the ladies goes, I get more attention off them now than ever.

Have started hitting the gym as well though, as there's nothing worse than a bald skinny bloke who looks like moby :D
 
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