"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Shave the head.

duhbigman

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One little piece of advice. Might seem a little obvious, but I think it's important...

If you're already balding,
SHAVE THE WHOLE FRICKIN' THING.

Because women are not attracted to the receding hairline. If you're balding but clinging to the hair that's left, women automatically assume you're weak or lack confidence, even if it's not true.
If you go all the way and shave the head completely, some women find it attractive. A few might even think you look "dangerous".

Before I started shaving my head, my luck with women was wildly inconsistent. Shortly after I began doing so recently, I got about seven or eight phone numbers in one week. None of them were fake. This led to several first dates, which even led to a few second dates (with the ones I found most interesting), and the saga continues.

And it proves what I've been saying all along, although some self-righteous women will angrily deny it: Women are just as superficial about looks as men are. (Or as they say men are...)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tactic

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it depends on your looks, not because of your hair only. alot of guys have their hairs near-bald and still get it good.
 

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some people dont have the rite shaped head for a skin head.
 

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I agree 100%.

But, you're talking about an before and after senario...



Post a pic!

Elimidate!
 

Jay-X

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what if your ears are big? you would look ridicolous, wouldn't you
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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manuva

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Originally posted by Jay-X
what if your ears are big? you would look ridicolous, wouldn't you
Yes, so a ridiculous comb-over would make FAR more sense...
 

Jay-X

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Originally posted by manuva
Yes, so a ridiculous comb-over would make FAR more sense...
no, but short hair would make your ears less ridicolous than a shaved head
 

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Depends. If you're dorky looking and you shave your head, you'll just perpetuate the problem.

Don't believe me? See "The Goonies" . However, if you're like Michael Jordan or that prowrestling freak of nature Steve Austin, then it'll work.
 

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What's the worst that could happen? Your hair will grow back, that's what. Wear a hat if you don't like your short hair in the interim. I don't see what the big deal is if you shave your head.

Allan
 

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got any b4 and after pics?



- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Shaved my head about a year ago after putting it off for ages, never looked back.

Quite a few people have told me that it makes me look mean, which can be a good thing as far as attracting the ladies goes, I get more attention off them now than ever.

Have started hitting the gym as well though, as there's nothing worse than a bald skinny bloke who looks like moby :D
 
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