You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Yeah I guess, there is definitely something weird going on with the pulldown...which concerns me because i'm using it next week as my backwidth exercises...:crazy:Quagmire911 said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Roger.EFFORT said:
Wow thanks for your kind words quagQuagmire911 said:
yeah, up about 60lbs and my lifts are a lot higher now. I'm still pretty weak (relative to the big lads) but I've made decent progress and to be fair I was abnormally weak to begin with (imagine an 18yr old guy who is 8 stones, 110lbs, lol...)Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
haha, nah not really mate, I don't think I have the genetics for it anyway. Plus I get fat too easily. Why you ask mateMad Manic said:
lol, nah man, I don't think there's any way I could be a pro BBer unless you put me on all the gear in americaI-tallionStallion said:shaunuk...you know damn well you could be one with enough dedication
Get fat too easily? You are a endomorph? How do you know?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yeah, I used to follow carb cutoffs religiously but now I'm at uni it can be a problem sometimes. I'm in catered halls, which is a disadvantage because I've then gotta find extra food, like dozens of eggs, shakes, tuna, chicken etc but in a struggle to get the protein I sometimes end up drinking some milk a few hours before bed or something like that.I-tallionStallion said:Well with a carb cut-off and morning cardio (read WBA's thread on losing fat while gaining muscle) I think you would be fine. It takes years to get big. I'm at 202...on the edge of getting to 12% body fat
I think you could get as big as you like. You just got to eat big, and watch those carbs. I get fat easily too FYI. It sucks, but with hard work you can pull it off.
. What height are you btw?Yeah I heard that too. I'm about 5'8 mateQuagmire911 said:DC will get you there mate...
I think Dante started at something like 140-150 and is now around 280. If mass is your thing of course
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.