"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Shaun's Training Log

shaunuk

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Well, this is my new training journal, I hope you enjoy following it.

I've had a training journal before, but I've always had interruptions just as I was gaining some pace, and as a result I moved slower than I really should've.

I'm now at Uni and there's nothing standing in my way :)

I have the privilege of being trained by EFFORT. My goals are size and strength via eventually working my way up to big squats, bench and deadlifts, hopefully over the next 3 or 4 years.

I hadn't trained properly for 6 weeks due to settling into Uni and my diet's been horrible, so I've lost quite a bit of strength. I currently weigh 147lbs, I was about 152 before Uni started. My maxes at that time were:

Squat, 65kgx3
Rack deadlift, 115kgx3
Bench press, 60kgx3

Overall small numbers at the moment, but I have the dedication to have fun working towards my goals, and a fvcking great trainer.

The current routine is gonna last for the next 6 weeks.

Cheers,
Shaun
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well well. Welcome back stranger, long time, 'bout time you got back in the gym.

Still with the Mrs?
 

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Monday, 29 October

ME Lower

Lat pulldown, 47.5kgx5, 47.5kgx5, 47.5kgx5, 47.5kgx5, 47.5kgx5

Deadlift, 95kgx4, 95kgx4 (no straps, forgot to take em)

Goodmorning, 40kgx10, 40kgx10


shaun
 

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Good to see you getting back into things, will follow with interest, good luck

Quagmire

Ps-You doing a westside routine?
 

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Cheers Tom, Quag.

Aye, it's a westside mod :)

There's no interruptions now like there was before (i.e. two weeks out of the gym out of nowhere), so I won't be doing two steps forward and one step back like before. I'm looking forward to it.

It's good to see your training is going REALLY well Quag, it's fun following your lifting :)

shaun
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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Wednesday, 31 October

ME Upper

Flat barbell bench, 42.5kgx5, 42.5kgx5

Incline dumbbell bench (paused), 14kgx8, 14kgx8, 14kgx8

Dumbbell situps

Not too bad, none of these are PRs, I'll still be building my way back up to where I was before for the next few weeks :)

-shaun
 

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Friday, 2 November

ME Lower

Barbell rows, 45kgx5, 45kgx5, 45kgx5, 45kgx5, 45kgx5

Squats, 47.5kgx4, 47.5kgx4, 40kgx20

-shaun
 

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shaunuk said:
Friday, 2 November

ME Lower

Barbell rows, 45kgx5, 45kgx5, 45kgx5, 45kgx5, 45kgx5

Squats, 47.5kgx4, 47.5kgx4, 40kgx20

-shaun
I'm curious, were the first two squat sets primers for the 20 repper?

Quagmire
 

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:up:

added to training journals thread.

Don't worry about the numbers you have now.. spend your energy on the weight you'll be adding to it next workout.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey Quag. Nope, they were worksets, 2x4. :)

Hey Quik, thanks for the support man ;)

-shaun
 

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"Squats, 47.5kgx4, 47.5kgx4, 40kgx20"

Just baffled me slightly. Can you shed any light? 7.5kg drop to add 16reps? What's going on :confused:
 

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Well, it was the hardest set of anything I've ever done..The whole set might well've been 3mins long for all the pauses I took :)

shaun
 
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