"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Shark Basic Playboy CD: genius or rip off?

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I'm listening to a CD called Shark Basic Playboy for a second time now. To be honest, I couldn't get past Shark's thick (Portuguse?) accent the first time 'round and found myself LMAO on many occasions during my first listen.

After thinking about what Shark has said, in retrospect, it looks like he is advocating using a direct approach at bars and especially at clubs. Has anyone listened to this CD and tried using any of Shark's openers? Here are some of them:

'I like you girls and I would like to get to know you.'
'You're beautiful, and I would like to get to know you.'
'If you look at me like that, then you can also....TALK to me.' (This opener is supposed to be used after a SOI/IOI).

I'm tired of using indirect approaches, and have no time to use them during the day anyway when they are most useful so Sharks' approach is attractive to me. However, I don't want to look like a jackazz going around using canned openers that everyone has used which all of the HB's have heard. Any experience (successful or unsuccessful) using the Shark CD? Respond.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The direct approach does work, but you have to be entirely congruent and make sure it's clear that you are still qualifying them, and that they don't automatically win you ust because of their looks. It's like you are acknowledging that they are hot, so you can get it out of the way and see if they are cool chicks too, which means they have to prove to you they are as nice as they look.

To use the direct approach, absolutely everything about you must say that you do this all the time, get heaps of chicks, will walk away if they are boring or *****y, etc. Essentially you have to be a DJ and look the part. Then it can work great.
 

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you should be direct just dont be sleazy. if your confident you can pull it off. if your shy and indirect then your waiting on the girl to make the move which most likley wont happen. not heard sharks cd where can i get it from?
 

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hey allen, clean your inbox so i can pm you.

thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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