"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Shared Birthday's

Naughty Ninja

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Here's a new topic. Did any of you ever share a birthday with a girl you've liked or dated in the past?

Do you think that created any type of special feeling or easy to think of you type of feeling?

There's a girl who is a customer of mine whom I've become acquainted with through a few times of assisting her and her mom at my second job. Very attractive girl.

She was on my Facebook is how I noticed her birthday is the same day as mine. (I'd deleted her as random acquaintences whom I don't talk to much in real life I delete. It's just me..)

I saw her the other day as she came to see me for help. Alone. (She said she was coming in to ask for me. Didn't buy anything but, she wanted to know when I work again to see me for help. (I'm thinking just for help and sje sees me as a friend. I'm honest with myself.)

Problem is shes like half my age though never asked mine and I'm not really sure if I should go for it. She is very friendly with me and I'd guess the question I'm asking is do any of you feel sharing the same birthday may keep you in a persons mind? I don't think anything would come out of it. But who knows..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Naughty Ninja said:
I don't think anything would come out of it.
If you didn't think anything would come out of it, you wouldn't have made this thread.

And yes, the more in common you have, the better.
 

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I honestly don't. I'm going to mention it to her. But the age difference svcks. Pretty nice person. Always asked alot of questions about me. She had a boyfriend, me girlfriend. But still I know females just love attention even if you are a "for the moment" guy.
 
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