"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Shared Birthday's

Naughty Ninja

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Here's a new topic. Did any of you ever share a birthday with a girl you've liked or dated in the past?

Do you think that created any type of special feeling or easy to think of you type of feeling?

There's a girl who is a customer of mine whom I've become acquainted with through a few times of assisting her and her mom at my second job. Very attractive girl.

She was on my Facebook is how I noticed her birthday is the same day as mine. (I'd deleted her as random acquaintences whom I don't talk to much in real life I delete. It's just me..)

I saw her the other day as she came to see me for help. Alone. (She said she was coming in to ask for me. Didn't buy anything but, she wanted to know when I work again to see me for help. (I'm thinking just for help and sje sees me as a friend. I'm honest with myself.)

Problem is shes like half my age though never asked mine and I'm not really sure if I should go for it. She is very friendly with me and I'd guess the question I'm asking is do any of you feel sharing the same birthday may keep you in a persons mind? I don't think anything would come out of it. But who knows..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Naughty Ninja said:
I don't think anything would come out of it.
If you didn't think anything would come out of it, you wouldn't have made this thread.

And yes, the more in common you have, the better.
 

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I honestly don't. I'm going to mention it to her. But the age difference svcks. Pretty nice person. Always asked alot of questions about me. She had a boyfriend, me girlfriend. But still I know females just love attention even if you are a "for the moment" guy.
 
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