"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sapiens

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Please do me a BIG favor and share your answers to these questions with me:


What do you like about yourself?

What is it that you want most out of life?

What is it that you are most afraid of?

If there is one thing you want to know, what is it?

My answers are these:

What do you like about yourself? I like me; I thank the Creator for giving me the chance to live this life and experience living; no matter how hard it seems at times.

What is it that you want most out of life? I want to live long enough to see my grandchildren grown up, and see that they are noble and productive human beings.

What is it that you are most afraid of? The uncontrollable greed of ignorance, there is no way to stop it other than teaching others to value human dignity.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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00Kevin

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what does this have to do with Hot babes and DJing?
 

Sapiens

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what does this have to do with Hot babes and DJing?
Setting the foundation to build upon.
 

Big Eee Zee

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i like not being you
im afraid of starting useless posts like these
i want to know why people like you are dragging the forum down and wont leave
 

Sapiens

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
i like not being you
im afraid of starting useless posts like these
i want to know why people like you are dragging the forum down and wont leave

LOL, I don't see you doing any better. So just answer the damn questions!

-Sapiens:crackup:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thederekeffect1

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... I feel like I'm taking one of those stupid quiz things you get in your Email. But okay...

What do you like about yourself? My determination.

What is it that you want most out of life? Happyness.

What is it that you are most afraid of? Fat chicks.

If there is one thing you want to know, what is it? Where's Atlantis?
 
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