"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Please do me a BIG favor and share your answers to these questions with me:


What do you like about yourself?

What is it that you want most out of life?

What is it that you are most afraid of?

If there is one thing you want to know, what is it?

My answers are these:

What do you like about yourself? I like me; I thank the Creator for giving me the chance to live this life and experience living; no matter how hard it seems at times.

What is it that you want most out of life? I want to live long enough to see my grandchildren grown up, and see that they are noble and productive human beings.

What is it that you are most afraid of? The uncontrollable greed of ignorance, there is no way to stop it other than teaching others to value human dignity.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what does this have to do with Hot babes and DJing?
 
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what does this have to do with Hot babes and DJing?
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Setting the foundation to build upon.
 
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i like not being you
im afraid of starting useless posts like these
i want to know why people like you are dragging the forum down and wont leave
 
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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
i like not being you
im afraid of starting useless posts like these
i want to know why people like you are dragging the forum down and wont leave
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LOL, I don't see you doing any better. So just answer the damn questions!

-Sapiens:crackup:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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... I feel like I'm taking one of those stupid quiz things you get in your Email. But okay...

What do you like about yourself? My determination.

What is it that you want most out of life? Happyness.

What is it that you are most afraid of? Fat chicks.

If there is one thing you want to know, what is it? Where's Atlantis?
 
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