"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sapiens

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Please do me a BIG favor and share your answers to these questions with me:


What do you like about yourself?

What is it that you want most out of life?

What is it that you are most afraid of?

If there is one thing you want to know, what is it?

My answers are these:

What do you like about yourself? I like me; I thank the Creator for giving me the chance to live this life and experience living; no matter how hard it seems at times.

What is it that you want most out of life? I want to live long enough to see my grandchildren grown up, and see that they are noble and productive human beings.

What is it that you are most afraid of? The uncontrollable greed of ignorance, there is no way to stop it other than teaching others to value human dignity.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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00Kevin

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what does this have to do with Hot babes and DJing?
 

Sapiens

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what does this have to do with Hot babes and DJing?
Setting the foundation to build upon.
 

Big Eee Zee

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i like not being you
im afraid of starting useless posts like these
i want to know why people like you are dragging the forum down and wont leave
 

Sapiens

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
i like not being you
im afraid of starting useless posts like these
i want to know why people like you are dragging the forum down and wont leave

LOL, I don't see you doing any better. So just answer the damn questions!

-Sapiens:crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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thederekeffect1

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... I feel like I'm taking one of those stupid quiz things you get in your Email. But okay...

What do you like about yourself? My determination.

What is it that you want most out of life? Happyness.

What is it that you are most afraid of? Fat chicks.

If there is one thing you want to know, what is it? Where's Atlantis?
 
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