"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Lifeforce

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haha =) stuff like that I thought only happened on movies until I checked that girl out an dlooking into her eyes on the other side off the street.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hehe yeah but i suppose u thought things like transforming from skinny nerd to cool muscular guy only happens in movies, too. at least i did.

dont watch tv - make ya own movie:D
 

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Thanks man, always try my best.

Double you flatter me ;)
 

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Kino

i found a small kino move that produced great results.

when i was walking down a hall with a friend, i was making some lame joke, but i was walking a bit close and bumping into her a bit, and she responded extremely well to it.

this was a girl that was comfortable around me, but never reacted to me that positively. i would only recomend this move when she is relaxed around you and you are joking around.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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when a girl is passing by, i grab her hands and throw her to the ground and then i pass by like i haven't seen her before..

or i throw a big book at her head and she turns around and i wave at her and she laughs.
 

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Here is a Kino move I did at church last Satureday.

I noticed this hot chicks eyeing me when I walked in. Since the church was crowed we had to stand up in the back. I waited standing near the door for a few minutes (to show I'm not desperate) before moving to her side and stand next her.

She didn't show any good signals except for the eye contact earlier. But my gut instinct tells me she was interested. Since it was during church, chatting was not appropriate.

Therefore, in order to show interest back I had to use some kino. For example, occasionally people would have to walk in the narrow space in front of us to get to the other side. I used those opportunities to lean inward to her to where our arms are slightly touching. The first two time I did that, she didn't flinch or do anything but just stand still.
Which is a positive sign considering this was done during a church setting.
 

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Originally posted by belividere
As for moves/flirting for cold approaches I have had success walking almost directly into girls. Kind of playing chicken on the sidewalk with her. Once you get close enough, depending on how crowded the situation, you will be forced to move one way or the other. At this point follow her lead and move the same way. Make eye contact. Move the other way if she follows take advantage. Give her some bullsh1t about how she needs to take you to dinner if she wants to dance or whatever. Always seems to be a good icebreaker if done well.
I really like this one. Can't wait to try it :D.
 
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