"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lifeforce

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haha =) stuff like that I thought only happened on movies until I checked that girl out an dlooking into her eyes on the other side off the street.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hehe yeah but i suppose u thought things like transforming from skinny nerd to cool muscular guy only happens in movies, too. at least i did.

dont watch tv - make ya own movie:D
 

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Thanks man, always try my best.

Double you flatter me ;)
 

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Kino

i found a small kino move that produced great results.

when i was walking down a hall with a friend, i was making some lame joke, but i was walking a bit close and bumping into her a bit, and she responded extremely well to it.

this was a girl that was comfortable around me, but never reacted to me that positively. i would only recomend this move when she is relaxed around you and you are joking around.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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when a girl is passing by, i grab her hands and throw her to the ground and then i pass by like i haven't seen her before..

or i throw a big book at her head and she turns around and i wave at her and she laughs.
 

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Here is a Kino move I did at church last Satureday.

I noticed this hot chicks eyeing me when I walked in. Since the church was crowed we had to stand up in the back. I waited standing near the door for a few minutes (to show I'm not desperate) before moving to her side and stand next her.

She didn't show any good signals except for the eye contact earlier. But my gut instinct tells me she was interested. Since it was during church, chatting was not appropriate.

Therefore, in order to show interest back I had to use some kino. For example, occasionally people would have to walk in the narrow space in front of us to get to the other side. I used those opportunities to lean inward to her to where our arms are slightly touching. The first two time I did that, she didn't flinch or do anything but just stand still.
Which is a positive sign considering this was done during a church setting.
 

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Originally posted by belividere
As for moves/flirting for cold approaches I have had success walking almost directly into girls. Kind of playing chicken on the sidewalk with her. Once you get close enough, depending on how crowded the situation, you will be forced to move one way or the other. At this point follow her lead and move the same way. Make eye contact. Move the other way if she follows take advantage. Give her some bullsh1t about how she needs to take you to dinner if she wants to dance or whatever. Always seems to be a good icebreaker if done well.
I really like this one. Can't wait to try it :D.
 
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