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All right, this is the fear of all men down to the core of our soul (mine included still - even though I can game women all day long, this part still SUCKS).

So lets share with everyone what is your best/worst experience asking a woman's phone number, and what is your best tactic so far and getting over your fear of rejection??
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The worst, when I tried to number close "THE HIGH SCHOOL SENIOR." The best any time, I successfully get the number. Before I number close, I'll usually bounce her to another location. I'll "conversate," with the chick some more, (building comfort and rapport,) and TELL (not ask,) her to give me her number. By bouncing a chick it makes the number close more solid, if she's willing to go with you from the spot where you initially met her to another location, you've obviously build have some rapport going with her, in addition to her trust and interest levels being raised.
 

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Best tactic to get over rejection: lol, they're women - 2/3s our size, and most likely not as intelligent, so who cares if they reject? Get her into a romantic state and get digits.

I walk up to her while maintaining eye contact and ask what her name is. When she gives me her name, I look down at my hand and up into her eyes and stick out my arm out palm up and shake her hand "cool name, nice to meet you". I then place her hand in my left hand and show her how the royal side of my family shakes peoples hands - It's bull****, but it works.

After building rapport with a touch of keno and small talk, I say "let me call you sometime woman, give me your number". It doesn't matter if I don't think she is worthy, because if I don't think she is I won't call, but getting the digits helps me feel good so whatever.

Bam, works 100%

Worst experiences I've had were when I was afc, and didn't know how to get a woman into a romantic state.
 

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Best one:

Me: I have to go now, but I want to see you again.
HB: Yep...
Me: Cool, what's your number?

(On debriefing I found out that four other guys asked that night, but I was the only one who got it because I "didn't make a big deal out of it".)


Worst one:

Me: Do you want to meet up some time...
HB: Ummmm... I don't think so


My best tactic:

Brutal honesty. You want her. She wants you. Be direct and take action.
 

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This my new samsung galaxy s5

*takes phone to see it*
"Yeah thats really sleek, I like it"

Yeah. Put your number into it.
 

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Maximus Rex said:
The worst, when I tried to number close "THE HIGH SCHOOL SENIOR." The best any time, I successfully get the number. Before I number close, I'll usually bounce her to another location. I'll "conversate," with the chick some more, (building comfort and rapport,) and TELL (not ask,) her to give me her number. By bouncing a chick it makes the number close more solid, if she's willing to go with you from the spot where you initially met her to another location, you've obviously build have some rapport going with her, in addition to her trust and interest levels being raised.
This is the truth.
I usually give her my phone while we still talking (especially when the conversation is getting more interesting) and tell her to save her number and just carry on talking like its no big deal instead of making the whole exchanging numbers thing into a discussion. If she gives me my phone back and doesn't give me her number I end the conversation and leave, its obvious she isn't interested, Next
 

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"I have seemed to have lost my number.. Can I have yours?"

Actually unintentionally I got a womans number yesterday. This receptionist in one of my buildings (I am a commercial building maintenance person and manager all in one for 3 10 storey commercial buildings) was complaining to me about a "creeper" that hangs in the garden area of one of the commercial buildings I manage. So I tell her"next time you see him when your out there just give me a call and I will approach this guy and ask him what's up because he doesn't belong there" so she asks "what's your number because I definately will, he creeps me out and several of my female co-workers" so I give it to her and she calls me right there so give me her number to make sure my number worked.

Getting numbers is easy.

Epi
 

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In my experience, even talking about "number closing" is ironic because in my experience it, like most things, works best when you don't treat is as some big deal. Especially not these days when people have hundreds of facebook friends, just getting someone's number is hardly even an IOI. Just feel it out and say whatever, she'll understand.
 

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Take your phone out, mess with it for about 30 seconds, look up, let her finish her sentence, direct attention to your phone and ask for the number. Makes it seems like a may-as-well sort of a thing, since you conveniently have the phone out.

If you get shot down, you now have to go because of your "previous text" you just received.

Win-Win
 

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Ive gotten alot of numbers but i only remember a few. The majority of the time i would talk about seeing them again and then tell them ill call or text them later.

alot of them go like this:

Me: "I dont mean to bother you but I saw you earlier over there and i had to come over here to talk to you"

HB8.5: ::Laughs:..Oh yeah? (smile)...After some talkin, flirting i ask for the number and then try to set something up another day. if im not already making out and grabbin on her ass lol

The Worst one was just a "let me get your number" instead of her giving it to me. For the most part i just ask for it while im flirting.
 

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Number closing is the easy part, I find it's when to initiate and getting the date thats the hardest. So easy these days to simply flick out your phone as if to check the time or something mid conversation and then simply bring the phone to her and use a generic line like 'hey by the way, whats your number?'. I've found most girls will give out their numbers regardless as long as there is a flicker of interest romantically or friendship wise. It's almost building up that initial first impression that is the challenge.
 

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The thing that has worked for me the best is building rapport and just acting like I have a fun conversation. Then I tell them to put their number on the phone.

Did this with an HB 7 on the flight back home last night. We talked the whole way there and I never brought up meeting up or anything like that. We just talked about what she's going to school for (She's a junior in college) and how I am addicted to golf lol.

I think because we built the rapport it was easy to get her interest. Now I'm pretty sure she won't flake on me. She texted me later saying it was really nice to meet me and that we should hang out over the summer.
 

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"hey, what kind of phone you got?"

and then take it from there(talk about the phone for a bit, maybe compare it to yours, then trade numbers)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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