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[Pozitron]

Ok so I've been kind of out of the box ( my box hehe...) lately and i liked it. I still do. I'm happier ( and not trying to justify it)... living in the moment and just doing things rather than thinking about them.

Anyway, here it is... I am really not so experienced with making and having a GF. In the past girls camed to me that I was maybe afreais and did nothing so I blew it every time. That's why I dont have experience.

I feel like I need to get 1 girl ( not the perfect one, just one I like) and then I'll get my "first's" and from there things will flow.

Having girls coming generally to me I am not used to "go and get what I want". Now I see that life doesn't wrk that way and that it's my job to do this. My job to initiate it and go for what I want.

I want to do it. I don't care if I screw up cause I know that will be so dam* helpful. I know that I'll feel that "fear" and I kind of like the feeling it gives me. I know I've never done this before and will feel uncomfortable. There is a first for everything. I accept all of that> And if I get cold fell I'll know I'm just scre**** myself so I'll do it anyway.

Now....... how. ( I can hear you saying: "Ow God.., again? Just look around, dude." ). Just say it once more. I'm trying here. I promise I'll never ask again after this one because I need to start and then I'll find my answers.

1) Tell me what you basically need to do ( don't care if I've heard them already. I need clarity). By this I mean what, not necessarily how since everyone has their style, and does what works for them ( if you mention it .. the better).

2) How did you do it the first time. How did you start? How was it/ ( the first....)

Thanks, Dj's

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Hey Pozitron,

the first thing you need to do is learn how to approach women. that is the first step and the start of anyone's journey through pick up, becoming a natural, getting a girlfriend, or whatever your goal is.

it's really simple, but pretty fvcking hard...I've only done cold approaches a few times in my life, and I wish I could do more. I get scared sh!tless way before I even see a girl and decide I want to approach her.

you need three things to do a cold approach: 1) you need to know what you're going to say, hence we have pick up lines, 2) you need to go outside into the world. it's much like being a newborn bird thrown from the sky, expected to learn to fly, or someone who has never been in water in their lives thrown into the ocean and left to swim to shore. fortunately, this will not kill you. in fact your chances of dying are zero, and your chances of becoming stronger as a man are 100%. 3) approach. it doesn't matter how young or old, fat or skinny, sexy or ugly, small boobed or big boobed the women you see are. you're not in this to get laid, you're doing this to gain confidence of your ability to survive in the world and do what you want to do. the purpose of approaching women is to gain social skills and lose your aura of fear and anxiety that most people carry along with them every day of their lives.

Hope this helps you. I hope this help me return to the field too. I'd like to avenge my failures and learn how to approach women!

 

[NorwegianDJ]

My first approach? Cant remember. Making a plan where you plan some of the first things you can say helps. Whatever, as long as you go do it.

My first GF? Dont have time for that. Nothing to learn anyway.

Social circle is huge too. gtg

I'll be back in a few days.