Shall we avoid rich women?

[jhonny9546]

Hi there

Have you ever wrote "wealthy" on the quality list a good woman should have for you?

My father always told me:
"you need to look for rich women".


Then, I can see some of my friends married to those wealthy women, but I actually see they're getting to eat the sh1t and walk straight.
They're the doormat version of a man.

Its my will to never do that for a woman, I actually see no benefits to the fact a relationship with a rich woman would bring to me or to the relationship...

My father actually would be happy if he see me realizing that, but he would never ask me if that relationship is really happy for me.

Do you guys ser any appeal, or something that would bring you joy on being with a rich woman?

 

[Hal9000]

I would up with a woman who isnt rich herself, although she makes a really good living and comes from a pretty well off family. I would never make a woman's financial status a primary reason to date them but, I'm not gonna lie, after dating so many women who have absolutely nothing except a bunch of credit card debt to their names it is refreshing to be with someone in a much better place. I would never, however, encourage someone to be with a partner because of their bank account.

 

[remarkable]

If you are hooking up with/dating a rich woman, and you are not her "sugar baby", then be prepared be taking the backseat whenever she decides she wants to lead. Women with more spending power tend to be more decisive, opinionated and empowered.

It's not going to be the dream that many young men think, where you just get to have hot sex while she spoils you with gifts (unless, of course, you're a sugar baby).

 

[BadBoy89]

My father always told me:
"you need to look for rich women".

Did your father think you were his daughter and meant "rich man" ?

 

[Velasco]

It's not going to be the dream that many young men think, where you just get to have hot sex while she spoils you with gifts

that actually did happen to me when i dated a rich girl for 3 years. even wanted to get pregnant by me. but i wanted a younger girl to start a family with so i ended that. was fun tho getting to go to nice restaurants i would never go to on my own

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I've been with rich and poor and in between. No reason to avoid any, except your personal preference.

 

[jhonny9546]

What you said makes perfect sense!

It's not going to be the dream that many young men think, where you just get to have hot sex while she spoils you with gifts (unless, of course, you're a sugar baby).

Or unless you're being used as a doormat while she entrusts you with "some wealth", while she has chad on the other line.

Did your father think you were his daughter and meant "rich man" ?

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that actually did happen to me when i dated a rich girl for 3 years. even wanted to get pregnant by me. but i wanted a younger girl to start a family with so i ended that. was fun tho getting to go to nice restaurants i would never go to on my own

Was that acutally a sort of female oneitis?
Given that, you had something she wanted from you.
It could be a big d1ck, or any other perk you gave her