"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Shag the student?

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Leporello

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Background: I'm working as an English teacher in Saigon. I have three regular girls and a couple more on the periphery. Getting decent viet girls into bed is hard work, but they make up for it by taking care of you.

Anyway, I teaches some classes with kids and some with late-teens/young adults. One of my adult classes is 14 girls and one guy. Today, one of them sent me this text message:

"Hello teacher im your student I have a truth that i want to tell u Do you have any girlfriend? Hope no coz i love you really Let me know your feelings"

Keep in mind I have no idea which girl sent me the message. I don't know how to find out which one (short of asking) or what to do if it turns out to be one of the hot ones. BUT, this class is ending in a week, so i don't have much chance to make things awkward in the classroom.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, uh, what kind of legal and moral implications are there here? I'm not an expert in Vietnamese legalese (rhyme intended) but I wouldn't want to be shacked up in the Hanoi Hotel for some hanky panky in the jungle ...
 
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DarkShade said:
Well, uh, what kind of legal and moral implications are there here? I'm not an expert in Vietnamese legalese (rhyme intended) but I wouldn't want to be shacked up in the Hanoi Hotel for some hanky panky in the jungle ...
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The Vietnamese age of consent is 18 and the youngest girl in the class is 19. True, I might get fired.
 
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come on...do we really have to tell you this. don't shyt where you live bro. stop making excuses about why you can't pull viet tail and step your game up and go pull some viet tail. Do you say...I can't make 100 bucks because its too hard or do you find a way to make it? Winner or losers? Winners just work hard to win...losers make excuse about how hard it is.

Don't go for easy pickings and ruin your career.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nah, it's all about the adventure. If she's hot then go for it. You know you want to :D Just reply to the text and ask who it is, and then ask her to meet you in a public place, just to make sure someone isn't f*cking with you. Remember, until you actually do screw her, you're probably not doing anything wrong that can cost you your job. But don't say anything via text that can hurt you if she showed someone else. Make her meet up or at least call you.
 
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I'd avoid it...

I doubt you'd get fired over it but the violating the teacher/student dynamic might be more taboo over in Vietnam (eastern countries tend to be more socially conservative). It certainly carries a degree of "whoa, that's odd" over here.
 
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I would just for the experience.

But it's probably not a good idea if you can get fired.
 
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