"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Shades In Da Club?

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Hey,

I am planning to go to a local teen night club tonight. My thread from my last (first) experience:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1321664#post1321664
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Anyways, I am trying to think of ways to make this experience a lot better than the last. Unlike last time, where I went with a guy, I am going with a hot friend girl. Also, any tips on getting girls to dance? Last time, the few girls I asked to dance, I said, "Hey, you want to dance?" I got rejected by all four I believe, so I was thinking of updating the line to, "Hey, let's dance!" That sound good?
Also, this place gets really crowded-so crowded that it takes like 5 minutes just to get to the middle of the small dance floor. I also find it hard to see who is single and who's not.
And lastly, shades-at night-in the club. Good idea? Or would it make me just look creepy? And if I do wear them, if I take them off, what would I do with them since I wouldn't be wearing a jacket?

Thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Depends on the club man if it's a rap based club why not but if it's not and your not performing I wouldn't.

On my personal opinion I wouldn't on the simply fact it's harder to see *****es with the shades. But My question why are you even asking, just go up behind them and start dancing. Most the girls I talk to hates when a guy ask them which means he gets no all the time. BUt it also depends are there a lot of drinking in this club if so don't ask, but if there is no what so ever you might have too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What is a teen club? Over here a teen club is a club with 16 year old local girls and 40 year old expats and Turkish guys.
 
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Bro, ive tried wearin them stunna shades in a da club 1 tyme.
I couldn't see $hit - cuz its already dark, and u wont see no choosin signs from tha femalez yanoimsayin
 
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The main idea of the aforementioned post (for the ebonics-challenged individuals), is: the better option is to omit the sun glasses, for your vision will be impared in the aready dim environment.
 
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