"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Shades In Da Club?

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Hey,

I am planning to go to a local teen night club tonight. My thread from my last (first) experience:

Anyways, I am trying to think of ways to make this experience a lot better than the last. Unlike last time, where I went with a guy, I am going with a hot friend girl. Also, any tips on getting girls to dance? Last time, the few girls I asked to dance, I said, "Hey, you want to dance?" I got rejected by all four I believe, so I was thinking of updating the line to, "Hey, let's dance!" That sound good?
Also, this place gets really crowded-so crowded that it takes like 5 minutes just to get to the middle of the small dance floor. I also find it hard to see who is single and who's not.
And lastly, shades-at night-in the club. Good idea? Or would it make me just look creepy? And if I do wear them, if I take them off, what would I do with them since I wouldn't be wearing a jacket?

Thanks!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tookie

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Depends on the club man if it's a rap based club why not but if it's not and your not performing I wouldn't.

On my personal opinion I wouldn't on the simply fact it's harder to see *****es with the shades. But My question why are you even asking, just go up behind them and start dancing. Most the girls I talk to hates when a guy ask them which means he gets no all the time. BUt it also depends are there a lot of drinking in this club if so don't ask, but if there is no what so ever you might have too.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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meitenesrigas

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What is a teen club? Over here a teen club is a club with 16 year old local girls and 40 year old expats and Turkish guys.
 

DJVladdy

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Bro, ive tried wearin them stunna shades in a da club 1 tyme.
I couldn't see $hit - cuz its already dark, and u wont see no choosin signs from tha femalez yanoimsayin
 

DJVladdy

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The main idea of the aforementioned post (for the ebonics-challenged individuals), is: the better option is to omit the sun glasses, for your vision will be impared in the aready dim environment.
 
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