"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Shades In Da Club?

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Hey,

I am planning to go to a local teen night club tonight. My thread from my last (first) experience:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1321664#post1321664
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Anyways, I am trying to think of ways to make this experience a lot better than the last. Unlike last time, where I went with a guy, I am going with a hot friend girl. Also, any tips on getting girls to dance? Last time, the few girls I asked to dance, I said, "Hey, you want to dance?" I got rejected by all four I believe, so I was thinking of updating the line to, "Hey, let's dance!" That sound good?
Also, this place gets really crowded-so crowded that it takes like 5 minutes just to get to the middle of the small dance floor. I also find it hard to see who is single and who's not.
And lastly, shades-at night-in the club. Good idea? Or would it make me just look creepy? And if I do wear them, if I take them off, what would I do with them since I wouldn't be wearing a jacket?

Thanks!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Depends on the club man if it's a rap based club why not but if it's not and your not performing I wouldn't.

On my personal opinion I wouldn't on the simply fact it's harder to see *****es with the shades. But My question why are you even asking, just go up behind them and start dancing. Most the girls I talk to hates when a guy ask them which means he gets no all the time. BUt it also depends are there a lot of drinking in this club if so don't ask, but if there is no what so ever you might have too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What is a teen club? Over here a teen club is a club with 16 year old local girls and 40 year old expats and Turkish guys.
 
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Bro, ive tried wearin them stunna shades in a da club 1 tyme.
I couldn't see $hit - cuz its already dark, and u wont see no choosin signs from tha femalez yanoimsayin
 
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The main idea of the aforementioned post (for the ebonics-challenged individuals), is: the better option is to omit the sun glasses, for your vision will be impared in the aready dim environment.
 
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