"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sh1t test or no?

Igottaprobmang

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I had been gaming this one girl for a while now, and she was showing alot of positive signs. However, our relationship started to die because we didn't talk to each other for awhile. She has never rejected me, always flirts with me whenever she gets the chance, and i can tell by her body language that she is interested (whenever she talks to me her voice is slightly higher than usual, her eyes dialate, she plays with her hair and fixes it alot when or before talking to me, etc). But, it seemed she began to hang with her ex-boyfriend again. Sure that bugged me a little, and when she was walking with him and she saw me, she'd smile and say "Hey igottaprobmang!", and I wouldn't even look at her and say "Waddup". When i used my preferals and looked slightly towards her, her head went down like she was sad.

But here's the story changer. Earlier before xmas break, I did a performance and lets just say almost every girl that saw it all of a sudden saw me differently. They would chatter amongst themselves saying that Igottaprobmang is so cute and hot. I felt like a true alphamale. So the girl that I used to pursue (the one i described in the above paragraph), changed as well. When she caught sight of me in the hallway she congratulated me on the performance and said i looked so hot. When she said this, she didn't seem like the normal girl I've been talking to, she seemed more intimidated by me, but her eyes still dialated (alot more). Later when i headed to my computer class, her best friend came up to me and said that she thinks I should get with her (the girl i've been 'gaming'). I responded "I thought she was seeing ex-boyfriend". She then responded "Well, she's making a mistake and i think you should be the one to date her, they're just seeing each other and probably wont get together again because of their last relationship" (she was not smiling nor did she have a normal gesturing face at this point, she had those concerned eyes). Now im not sure if she's just a good actor or what not, but It convinced me. Now i'm wondering if this is all a **** test. As i see it, because of the performance i did, she probably saw me as "the great catch" afterwords, especially when all those girls in school talked about me. And i've noticed, she hasn't hung around her ex-boyfriend after the performance either. Whats also funny is everytime her ex-boyfriend sees me, he stares at me as if he wants to fight. I stare at him back and he walks away (hah). So help me guys, be the judge. What do you think? **** test or not?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Elky

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Don't wast time. You want her? go get her. She isn't married, she isn't even going out with anyone. I'd say **** it. Who cares if its a s*** test or not. She's obviously interested, so go take some action.
 

PleasureKing

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dude, stop wasting your time, and go get her. just call this a risk, and take it.
if this turns out to be a mistake, you can call it experience. if its not a mistake, you can call this your success.

you have nothing to lose, but everything to gain.

once again, go get her.

peace
The PleasureKing
 
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